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Lem, I do think your rephrasing of what consig said did dial the rhetoric up to 11. There was back and forth between the two parties, asking to end the tryst, only to get sucked back in. John Dehlin expressed his ultimate desire to try and make it work with his wife, though it appears he got perilou...

Another suggestive data point is her fight with the franchiser she got involved with. She broke the contract because she claimed they were doing business illegally. Now she owes them over a quarter mill, but she writes a book about it and blames the whole thing on John Dehlin. Fits the pattern quit...

My current question is: If “no” means “no”, is Rosebud harassing John Dehlin once he says it? Unfortunately this case is not so simple. Both had satiated it needs to stop, at different times throughout their trip down the “river.” I think they are both guilty of some degree of sexual harassment. The...

Doctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑

Tue May 11, 2021 9:59 pm

jpatterson,

Do you or Rosebud have a copy of John Dehlin’s “two options” email or letter?

- Doc

It is part of the oct 15 email:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/14EIu3 ... p=drivesdk

Agreed that "no" and "leave" would be naughty of John Dehlin. What I read is that John Dehlin was saying "no", "no", "no", "no", ......... for some time and then "leave". The "leave" is precipitated by Rosebud not responding to "no", multiple times. And if that leave had been, “leave Open Stories F...

That's a pretty decent assessment, m_dc, I appreciate that. Agreed that "no" and "leave" would be naughty of John Dehlin. What I read is that John Dehlin was saying "no", "no", "no", "no", ......... for some time and then "leave". The "leave" is precipitated by Rosebud not responding to "no", multi...

That's what I don't get about that comment. Does he not understand that it is being suggested that the superior should have the right to say that to a subordinate, AFTER he has already had a relationship with the subordinate? And, referring back to consig's comment, that he is suggesting that if th...

... The early Facebook messages are chilling if you read them all the way through and know the well-documented patterns of predation (targeting, gaining trust, fulfilling a need, isolating, then physical contact). Doc is spot on identifying the changes. Many of these patterns can also be observed i...

consiglieri wrote: ↑

Tue May 11, 2021 3:28 am

jpatterson wrote: ↑

Tue May 11, 2021 3:21 am

Again, I call attention to your lack of self-awareness in thinking she was ever posting here for your benefit.

No one here felt it was for our benefit.

I might say I have benefitted from this, I solemnly swear to never cheat on my spouse!

help all understand your endgame. It is just coming off as “destroy John Dehlin” I don't even know what it means to "destroy" someone. My endgame is to stand up for people who have survived sexual assault/harassment/violence. I believe Rosebud and I think a lot of people are making a lot of excuses...