ajax18 wrote:
In a way I can see where atheists do make the world a better place. If I had gotten revenge on the people who mistreated me, they would probably have at least had second thoughts before screwing over the next person in their path. Or they may not have been around to even do that. Perhaps I wouldn't either, but the world still has one or possibly two fewer abusers to deal with. When Christians turn the other cheek, it seems to give these people the green light.
I get the impression you think of atheists as lawless thugs and abusers. And the reason being that they have no concerns of punishment in the aferlife whereas a religious individual does plus a religious individual can rest assured that those deserving of punishment will be punished in the afterlife so they don't need to take out revenge on their abusers.
Logically what you say makes sense. People are generally motivated by rewards and want to avoid punishments.
So what is the reward for an atheist to treat others with respect. Well I think it boils down to "do unto others what you'd like done unto you." Socially deviant individuals tend to be ostracized from any group. So social pressure is one way, which keeps people, atheists included from abusing and disrespecting the rights of others. Of course there are also laws and the legal system which helps to control socially unacceptable behavior.
Belief in an afterlife isn't a foolproof incentive which keeps people in check. Because a God belief is a reflection of one's own mind. So it's just a matter of whatever an individual wants to do no matter how unethical, he/she can use their God to justify it. As far as turning the other cheek, that's also a matter of maturity, not just a Christian idea. A mature individual appreciates there is only one life to live and at times it's best in the long run for themselves to ignore and walk away rather than attempt to take out revenge. From my personal experience Ajax, I have found that atheists have extremely high moral values but I'm not sure why that is.
I amazed at those who think that joy of this life makes it all worth it in and of itself. That's not good enough for me at all. I guess I need religion or at least beliefs that I can't prove.
The quest for most is happiness. But one can't be happy all the time, there has to be lows to appreciate the highs. But for you personally, if religious beliefs add value to your life, you can't knock it. It's important to keep in mind though that respect of others shouldn't just be for the present generation living, one should also keep in mind respect and the rights of others of future generations. Focusing so much on one's own afterlife, tends to make one loose focus of the present, and the planet in the future.