zeezrom wrote:Who said this is asking for marital advice?! Did I say that? You assume this scenario is me. Lol.
Harmony., what is potf?
Proclamation on the Family. My favorite lining for the bird cage.
zeezrom wrote:Who said this is asking for marital advice?! Did I say that? You assume this scenario is me. Lol.
Harmony., what is potf?
ttribe wrote:Good grief yourself. How many people here are professionally trained counselors?
How many on this (or any) board genuinely have another stranger's best interests at heart?
If it's potentially serious, a marriage counselor is in order; not a bunch of anonymous pixels on a computer screen.
harmony wrote:That would be me. And Truth Dancer. And Jersey has quite a bit of experience even if she's not professionally trained, just because of her job.
harmony wrote:Whoa, nelly! Back up the bus. Do you honestly think we're all scumbags who think nothing of ruining someone's life? We leave that to MAD.
harmony wrote:I didn't take it to necessarily be personally attached to any individual here. It was just a scenario, a role play, a hypothetical.
beefcalf wrote:From the my wife's perspective she would prefer that DH keep going through the motions of being LDS, presenting the correct outward appearance that nothing had changed, saying prayers, giving lessons, accepting speaking assignments, etc, but while not believing any of it, than for him to continue to believe it was all true, but to reduce or cease activity in the church.
Yahoo Bot wrote:What do my wife and DH mean? Divorced Wife and Divorced Husband?
zeezrom wrote:Yahoo Bot wrote:What do my wife and DH mean? Divorced Wife and Divorced Husband?
I'd say, whatever you do, don't be a damned hyprocrite. That's the worst thing to do. Act consistently with your beliefs. Grow a pair.
Dear wife and dear husband
or maybe you were joking...?
When you say hypocrite, are you talking about my wife or DH?
I agree being a hypocrite is less than satisfactory. A damned one is even worse, whatever that means.