sock puppet wrote:LDSToronto wrote:It's not a court, it's a disciplinary council. The metaphor of a court doesn't hold up. I've attended over a dozen disciplinary councils, as a high councilor and as a member of a stake presidency, and my experience is that these councils are already decided prior to the council being held.
H.
That makes sense. It is a function of a religion that relies on confirmation bias. You have to first decide to belief, then if you have and ask god, you'll feel good about your decision. If you haven't made a firm decision, you'll feel yet confused. The prayer and the feeling are predetermined by how firmly you've decided the matter mentally before you pray.
By the way, H., is it the Stake President then that has predetermined the outcome before the court is convened?
In my experience, yes. The stake president is the only person who determines the outcome of the council - there is no majority vote.
Prior to a disciplinary council, a good stake president will try to meet with the accused multiple times. My stake president is a good guy, he goes out of his way to avoid disciplinary councils. From my experience, if the accused met with my stake president and showed some inkling of repentance, then my stake president would usually avoid the counsel or give him a lighter penalty. On the other hand, if the accused didn't show up to pre-meetings, or did not show any sign of repentance, then you could almost guarantee the outcome would be excommunication.
In the end, why anyone would ever subject themselves to a disciplinary council is beyond me - more than a courtroom, it's an arena where you are judged and questioned, and the power imbalance is hard to overcome for most.
H.
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