I just wanted a gal I was attracted to. Not super-sexy, just "sexy" to me. Sexy enough to make me want to beget with her. That's all. Was I asking too much? Obese women don't "do" it for me. I tried to fall in love with them. Went out with one for almost three years. Never worked.
I'm not sure what "Sexist" means? Does it mean a man who treats women like inferiors? I knew such men, and the women LOVED them and gave them sex all the time!!!! I treated Mormon women as equals, and most of them treated me as an inferior. Maybe THEY are the "sexists". But I would not call them "sexists". I would call them hypocrites, and dishonest, and "immoral" and "oral" and many of them I'd call "Gold-diggers" but not "sexists".
RayAgostini wrote:
Daheshist wrote:Actually, the most spiritual Mormon women liked me a LOT, but, unfortunately, they almost always were FAT. It's really true......a "sweet spirit" is usually also fat. I suppose if I were truly spiritual, their bodies would not matter. But, I was not THAT spiritual.
So you want a "Mormon woman" who looks physically like Bo Derek, and the "fat ones" are not good enough for you, no matter how pure and benign and loving they may be in spirit? They aren't worthy of you until they get rid of the fat?
Let me see what you want - a slim, physically sexy Mormon woman who is also spiritual. Must be perfect in body and spirit, to match Darrick, who is - equally physically sexy? Yes, Darrick, you're not asking for much, are you? Have you ever considered that you might be sexist?
Daheshist wrote:Actually, the most spiritual Mormon women liked me a LOT, but, unfortunately, they almost always were FAT. It's really true......a "sweet spirit" is usually also fat. I suppose if I were truly spiritual, their bodies would not matter. But, I was not THAT spiritual.
If a man shall love his life, he shall lose it, and if he shall hate his life he shall gain it.
Most people are sorry when they die. But most people are selfish and life is working out good for them more often than not at the expense of others. I won't be sorry to leave this world. But people who really hate life like myself somehow always end up living the longest. I can see it now, "Happy Birthay Brother Ajax, you just turned 110." Grumble, grumble, when is my turn coming?
And when the confederates saw Jackson standing fearless as a stone wall the army of Northern Virginia took courage and drove the federal army off their land.
I would call them hypocrites, and dishonest, and "immoral" and "oral" and many of them I'd call "Gold-diggers" but not "sexists".
Don't worry Daheshist, I am sure that once the wedding ring goes on the "oral" thing pretty much stops.
As for the other traits, I think your problem is that you never actually saw women as equals, you put them on a pedestal and thought you saw them as equals. Once they showed themselves to be humans your projected image was shattered and you then devalued them. Personally I actually would say most LDS women are fairly honest, try not to be immoral and only a percentage are gold-diggers.
Also, you have a choice -- you are in your early 50s. A non-member friend of mine just turned 40 and i told him he needed to get married. He repeated a "true-ism" I have heard before -- the perfect age for a wife would be half his age plus seven. If you are 52 then half of that plus seven is 33. I am sure there are plenty of single 33 year olds available for you if you just get yourself in shape and start projecting a positive image. Remember, you have 40 or so probable years left -- wanna be lonely the whole time griping on an internet forum?
Personally I actually would say most LDS women are fairly honest, try not to be immoral and only a percentage are gold-diggers.
I think most LDS women have more self control and discipline than most women. In most every way they are better than most women. They do so many good things. But so often all that changes when you start talking about dating and how they treat the players on the other team. In my experience it was no holds barred all out war. I'm not saying it's much better amongst nonmember women, maybe slightly because nonmember women had experienced more abuse themselves. But it was just surprising because if you take who they are during dating and marriage out of the equation, LDS women are stellar people, head and shoulders above the rest.
And when the confederates saw Jackson standing fearless as a stone wall the army of Northern Virginia took courage and drove the federal army off their land.