Maybe I'm just getting jaded in my old age, but I finally got around to reading the thread, and didn't think it was shameful. It was, well, what humans do when disasters happen.
Ever since the LDS church was founded, Mormons have believed that Christ's return is imminent. (Except Packer throwing on the brakes a little recently.) They have all kinds of prophecies of natural disasters that will happen in conjunction with the return. When I was growing up in the church, we speculated all the time about signs of the end times. I think it's entirely understandable that, when major events occur, Mormons try to fit those events into prophecies of the end times.
I didn't see callousness towards the victims of the storms. I saw people praying for them and hoping people in harms way would be kept safe. I saw expressions of sadness as the death toll mounted.
I didn't see statements that the victims were wicked or deserved punishment. The atheist comment was part of an expressed hope that, if enough people prayed, god would turn the storm out to sea. I thought the poster was expressing dismay that his/her friends in harms way were atheists who don't believe in prayer. As an atheist myself, I didn't feel slighted by the comment in the slightest.
Yes, there were people minimizing the danger. I'm a kind of storm junkie myself, and I am glued to Jeff Master's blog during big storm events. The weather geeks there spend pages and pages arguing over whether a particular storm is underhyped or overhyped. What I saw at MDD was pretty mild compared to what I was reading the day of the storm.
If you are LDS, I don't know how you get around the conclusion that the storm was god's will. God is all powerful. God could have turned the storm out to sea. God chose not to. Ergo, the storm hitting the eastern seaboard was god's will. That's an intrinsic aspect of Mormonism (or any other theism with an all powerful, all knowing, god). Heck, I heard the same thing at my LDS sister's funeral -- she died because it was god's will. I see no difference between the well-intentioned folks trying to give me comfort and saying it was god's will that the storm killed all those people.
So, I don't see anything callous about both praying for the safety of folks in harms way and acknowledging that, if people are injured or killed and their homes destroyed, that was the will of god. That's just humans trying to do their best to come to grips with the problem of evil -- something that religion has struggled with for centuries.
(I'll agree that the "snookie" comment was a little callous, but it certainly was not representative of the thread as a whole.
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“The ideal subject of totalitarian rule is not the convinced Nazi or the dedicated communist, but people for whom the distinction between fact and fiction, true and false, no longer exists.”
― Hannah Arendt, The Origins of Totalitarianism, 1951