Scottie wrote:Tarski (and other skeptics),
How do you respond to those that claim to have had an OBE, traveled to a loved ones presence and later described exactly what that person was wearing, doing, saying, etc?
Do you believe these are just non-credible stories?
A little story is in order.
Once I stayed home from church when I was still marginally a Mormon. My wife had been getting more and more unhappy with my skepticism.
That day at church she received what she needed to put me in my place. She came home with tear in hear eyes and told me the following:
"Today Jack Smith bore his testimony and told a story of something that happened to someone in his family. It wasn't a second hand rumor like you always say." (She was already crying).
She then told me that not only was it first hand information but that the spirit testified to everyone in the meeting that it was true. The spirit was there with a power and certainty she had never witnessed and everyone felt it.
Ok so what was this oh so credible story? Well, some one was driving a car at night and passed by some hitchhikers. They felt impressed to pick up these hitchhikers. They sat in the back seat, three men. As they were driving along. These men began to warn the driver that they should get a years supply. The driver suddenly felt the spirit but when he turned around to look the men in the eye they had vanished even though he was still driving down the highway at 60 miles per hour.
I recognized this as a variation of the vanishing hitchhiker story-a common urban legend.
So I called the guy who gave the talk. I found out it didn't happen to him or anyone in his immediate family but rather to his cousin or something. I pretend to sincerely want the details and asked him for the number of the relative. I got it. I repeated the process because the relative had heard it from someone who had the experience first hand.
This process continued until I ended up talking to somebodies grandmother in Arizona. She told me that she did indeed tell the story to the last person I talked to. I asked who it happened to and where. She said in a sweet innocent little voice "Oh may stars, I don't remember who told me about that".
Now I have been a skeptical type for a while and invariably what starts out as a "how can you explain this?" type story always ends up far far less impressive if one gets to track things down and ask one's own questions.
So yes, I think people lie, get confused, confabulate, and lose track of how they know things and who they have or haven't met or seen a pictures of etc. They misunderstand, hear what they wish to hear misconstrue what the other one just said "how did you know uncle Joe had blue eye?' (He actually didn't actually say he knew it but no he is willing to go along with excitement-confusion begets confusion and zeal begets mis-perceptions and so on.)
It's likely that people feed off each other and that something happens like when an over enthusiastic shrink puts ideas in a childs head and pretends like it all came from the child. Like leading the witness so to speak. We all do it to each other and build off each other.
This is why they invented the double blind proceedure becuase even scientists effect things unknowingly.
I don't trust people memories or their judgment or their honesty in some case (lying to prove an important spiritual principle).
Uri Geller could bend spoons well enough to fool scientists. It wasn't until James Randi came along and focused his skeptical gaze that, suddenly, Geller couldn't do anything. Randi controlled the situation to avoid the trick.
The worst offenders are they soft "scientists" who are out to prove materialism wrong. They are full of sentimental wishful thinking about death and they have a chip on their shoulders regarding what they don't like about where science has been going. It never stands up to scrutiny, but there is just so many instances of bad science and only so much time to go debunking like I did with the hitchhiker story.
when believers want to give their claims more weight, they dress these claims up in scientific terms. When believers want to belittle atheism or secular humanism, they call it a "religion". -Beastie
yesterday's Mormon doctrine is today's Mormon folklore.-Buffalo