For those "hooked" on Joseph Smith I say try some other things for a period of weeks. Lie on your bed for a few minutes each day and meditate on whatever is beautiful and glorious to you. Excluding Joseph Smith. Add some music. Take a walk and say your prayers in your mind to God, just like you were having a conversation, without the protocol of "Dear Heavenly father." Give a homeless person a few bucks, even if they may blow it on cigarettes. Don't judge another for bad habits, just start thinking nice thoughts about them.. The constraints the church places on people causes them to be the worst judgers around, and sometimes the worst in picking mates.