why me wrote:And yet, I have never seen him as being evil. In fact, just the opposite. His letters to emma when he was in prison are full of love for her, for the kids and for god. I don't see any part of Joseph's anguish that he was an evil man out to commit a fraud against god. Now he certainly knew his own imperfections and he seemed to suffer accordingly from them in terms of his own conscience. But I don't see an evil man in the life of Joseph Smith. In fact, I see a guy caught between a rock and a hard place...having to do what god wanted him to do and his own sense how difficult it all is.
Yeah, if a guy can write a loving letter to his wife, then one just has to ignore the fact that he "married" dozens of women behind her back, against her known wishes. He's just a good ole' boy. And of course God wanted Joseph Smith to marry dozens of women behind his wife's back. What God wouldn't?
We also need to remember that from the very beginning he was being judged by the members and many left the faith over his behavior because they had the impression that a prophet needed to be perfect or judged according to the protestant calvinist mindset that many of the members came from. And Joseph himself said to the members not to expect him to be perfect.
Also, it were Jeffs wives that ratted him out. Just the opposite for Joseph. Not one wife said a negative word about him after he died or during the whole process of being a plural wife. And that speaks volumes.
Yeah, I mean, who's perfect? Marrying dozens of women behind your wife's back should be held against him.
And why would any woman hesitate to speak poorly about Joseph Smith? I mean, who cares if Martha Brotherton and others were openly called mentally ill whores after speaking out????
by the way, which of Jeffs' wives ratted him out? Names and links, please.