(some!!!!) Mormon & exmormon men and the internet

[_asbestosman]

In the real world, adults actually do have those sort of conversations. We had them quite a bit on my old divorce board. I talked about it, too, along with the other grown ups.

I think it's possible to be childish about sex without harassing others. I'm kinda that way. I think.

(dangit, I'm up to 72 now).

[_Gazelam]

marg is a guy?

It doesent matter. We're talking about my inserting my own viewpoints onto what someone has posted, and in my opinion marg is a gay guy.

[_beastie]

I think it's possible to be childish about sex without harassing others. I'm kinda that way. I think.

That's true.

[_Moniker]

I think it's possible to be childish about sex without harassing others. I'm kinda that way. I think.

I'm that way too, I'm pretty sure, at times. When men act stupid on here (like Coggins) I may say something to him sexually absurd 'cause he likes to make jokes at my expense about being a dancer.

[_Bond...James Bond]

How many did I have?

Only 55? WTF? Seriously...that thing has to be messed up if I have less than Scratch.

Maybe it's cause I'm not explicit and do alot of innuendoing.

[_Moniker]

Maybe it's cause I'm not explicit and do alot of innuendoing.

You know what, Bond? I think it's cause I don't do lots of innuendo that I run into trouble. I also think that perhaps I am a bit naïve in a way with the way people would view me on this board. Yet, marg isn't LDS and she apparently thinks my behavior is more sexually inviting than Liz's. So, perhaps it's just 'cause it's MY personality, MY life, etc... that I get shocked when people respond the way they do. Maybe it is that I don't think it's a big deal if teen girls have sex, or think it's a big deal to have sex outside marriage, or a big deal to do whatever that I just blabber crap. I mean, people I ran with didn't think it was a big deal. Yet, then again I was in a sub-culture that was punk clubs, raves, etc... We just did whatever and it was no biggie. I know I'm a early 30 year old woman with kids, that is pursuing her dream in regards to educational pursuits, has interests that are rather bland and just a normal woman. Yet, maybe I'm not?

I'm a lot less of a hellion than most of my friends so I think I'm calm and normal in comparison.

But, then again I used to post on a step-mom board for about 2 years and we all knew EVERYTHING about each other (oooh the fights!) and no one batted an eye. Well, they didn't know too much about me.... 'cause I was embarrassed to say a word about myself. I'm not now! There was an author that went to write about strip clubs (she wrote Candy Girl) became a stripper for a year. There were women that were artists and lived unconventional lives. There were women that participated in sex clubs with their spouses. There was a young woman that had an affair with an old guy and married him for his money and then hated her step-kids. There were women complaining about sex with their husbands. There were women talking about just everything. I felt quite zen there. So, I'm not sure what it is.

Maybe it's me? Maybe I should just not care if it is me. I'm not changing. I've learned to not let it bother me too much. I think seeing people on here making stupid comments about sex irritates me -- it's just 'cause it's pretty much the first time I've heard lots of these stereotypes and I speak up -- yet, actually TALKING about it and speaking out makes me feel rejuvenated in some aspect. Almost as if reminding myself I'm still in here. This is me and if someone says or does something I don't like it feels rather pleasant to tell them so. :)

[_Bond...James Bond]

Yet, marg isn't LDS and she apparently thinks my behavior is more sexually inviting than Liz's.

It might also be cause you're currently single and Liz isn't.

I think we often get into this line of thinking where single-->warm blooded--->available-->sex will inevitably happen because single+available+and being young and still of childbearing years--->sex will happen.

And more than one person will think: "maybe...what if...you don't suppose?"

It seems that within society being single isn't right...and we should always strive for relationships. I guess that's truly the underlying current on Christianity/Judaism in society...as much as people want to say "I'm not Christian in any way shape or form, " they still are in someways.

(I also agreed with your other stuff...which I deleted when quoting or I would have commented on it..)

[_Moniker]

Oh! That's a good point, Bond! Marg has commented on me being single. Apparently the way my mind works (or something along those lines) makes it clear why I'm single.

Hee hee. I've never had a lack of men wanting to be my companion or marry me. Why? 'Cause I'm a woman... it's really not that hard to find a man.......

I'm single by choice = slut???

Does Charity have a sockpuppet?

[_Bond...James Bond]

Oh! That's a good point, Bond! Marg has commented on me being single. Apparently the way my mind works (or something along those lines) makes it clear why I'm single.

Hee hee. I've never had a lack of men wanting to be my companion or marry me. :)

I'm single by choice = slut???

Does Charity have a sockpuppet?

I think the fact that you're single means that you're available to humanity at large, as opposed to being in some sort of exclusive relationship where you're sexual favors are given to one. Oh course there's always the problem that some men will always think there's a chance, even at the lowest possibility.

It's like in the movie Dumb and Dumber where Jim Carrey's character asked that hot redhead what the chances were. He asked 1 in 100...and she said more like 1 in a million. And Jim said..."so you're telling me there's a chance....YEAH!".

Some men are Lloyd Christmas. Hanging on to that slim chance.

[_Yoda]

Anyway, Liz, I'm sorely hurt that you have not invited me into the Goddess Suite. I'm telling you, you let me in just once and you'll conclude that, henceforth, three or more would be a crowd!

Will, only the finest specimens are admitted to the Goddess Suite. However, since you so eloquently asked, you will be admitted on a trial basis. If we become bored with you, and/or, you don't look good in a thong, you will be asked to leave the premises.

;)

Due to the wet blankets here, the continued antics of the Goddess Suite has been moved to the following board:

http://www.kevingraham.org/forum/viewto ... =3792#3792