Cicero wrote:With regards to the topic itself, I think Stormy Waters, Joe and Madison have all raised excellent points. I think that the emphasis on whether or not Joseph Smith had sex with his wives that were at the time legally married to someone else is ultimately misguided. There are still several very troubling issues stemming from this practice regardless of whether sexual relations were involved. I know this is hard for many of you here, but just for purposes of this post, let's just assume for a moment that what the Church teaches about eternal families and the afterlife is actually true. That would mean Joseph was actually depriving these men of their eternal companions. Just think about that for a moment and let it sink in . . . and then think about Stormy's question above: How would you feel if Thomas S. Monson came to you today and said that he was dissolving your eternal marriage even though he would "let you keep her for now." The whole practice of polyandry is profoundly disturbing to me regardless of whether sex was involved. I personally think that the circumstancial evidence that sex WAS involved is overwhelming, but I also think it misses the profoundly disturbing theological implications of the practice. To see what I mean, just read the letters we have from Henry Jacobs to his wife Zina.
This. You expressed my feelings so well!
The dishonesty and betrayal is just so huge with the practice of polyandry that it's simply wrong and immoral whether or not sex was even involved.
How do apologists get past all the lying and deceit to even get to the point of arguing the sexual part?