the road to hana wrote:why me wrote:...a person is free to leave the church.
For most members, this is a true statement, with the caveat,
"but not without complication." The LDS Church generally tenaciously holds onto members, and those who wish to leave generally find obstacles to that process.
"Free to leave" is a complicated statement:
1. There is the freedom to leave the church via excommunication. This is widely-known method, and considered a dishonorable exit method.
2. You are free to leave the church via going somewhere else and no longer attending any LDS functions. This also is widely practiced. It is debatable whether it is an honorable or dishonorable exit method.
3. You are free to leave the church via
resignation. The church does not publicize this method, it is not widely-known, and the only reason it is even permitted is due to mid-1980's/1990's lawsuits which enforced the right of individuals to resign without excommunication. This also may or may not be considered honorable, depending on local leadership.
A key feature of Steven Hassan's destructive-cult model is that the organization does not allow a method for members to
honorably exit. The LDS church seems to be evolving in the direction of allowing honorable exit methods, but is not there yet. Hassan provides the US military as an example of a very cult-like organization, but exempts it from being a destructive cult because of social standing associated with service and the ability to exit the organization with honor. I would put the LDS Missionary program in a similar category, because it is generally looked upon favorably, and provides a way to exit the program honorably. Within the program, however, it is very cult-like.
Umm, and CogDis7? Don't pretend you know me, my qualifications, or how long I spent teaching infants like you doctrinally-sound LDS principles. Just because I recognize the flaws in the social environment surrounding the faith of my fathers and suggest corrections does not make me a "critic". Enjoy your continued trolling, you incoherent baboon.