honorentheos wrote:I would add a couple of thread-derailing thoughts, though.
I have had similar conversations with many a person; Mormons, Christians, athetists, and a sprinkling of new-age or McEastern religion practitioners. And across the spectrum I've found that this is likely a more authentic point of view when that person has determined the most substantial thing they've learned to that point was real tolerance for other's views. It seems to be the touch-stone that reveals whether such thinking is another way of saying, "What I believe to be true is true...for me. And I therefore assume the right to hold all other views contained within this assigned worldview. You believe what you want." or "We all see through a glass, darkly. Therefore, where my belief crosses over into your right to live your beliefs it ceases to be justified. There, I will not follow it that far."
Marriage equality doesn't seem to be an issue with you, which I respect and it points to your view honestly being one gained from experience rather than convenience. What gets tricky, for me anyway, is accepting that even tolerance may be wrong or built on a flawed foundation. Hell, I suspect it has had negative evolutionary value through most of human history so when we read of the rise of nationalism, see lines of social divisions widening in chasms, and failures to find common ground in even the most obvious circumstances where all parties would have been better off if not having won outright...maybe it's not "truth" in a real sense.
The question then rises up: Are potentially self-destructive ideals worth pursuing? Is it meaningful to believe strongly in the higher value of pluralism and informed democratic social orders when it seems it's unrealistic that they can outcompete the other alternatives in the market place of ideas? Does believing they have higher value than the alternatives mean I'm using the wrong metrics?
In some ways, I think we share some things in common. Just not Mormonism. :)
Wonderful post Honor and thank you MG for your usual measured, thoughtful and considerate discussion. I know very many people around me in some conservative families, in-laws, friends etc. that vastly outnumber those of us in my area who are left of center, that would agree with many of your general ideas and views and are in a variety of faith groups other than the LDS. The strongest and most active seem more attracted by the good they feel from service to others. Hellfire and brimstone - even a little, is quite off putting for almost all, except maybe Jehovah's Witnesses and other really hard absolutists who seem to need to be constantly told they are more elect and special than the rest. If you can't invent, discover, synthesize or change something through research, intellect and lot's of hard work, then join a group that tells you, you are more special than anyone else because you have managed to select just the right combination of beliefs which is the magic key to be elevated higher than the rest of us salmon just trying to make our way up the river. It is all about tribe.
I think the last paragraph/question that Honor writes here is a lot to consider. This business of ideas we consider in pluralism and how or whether they are destructive or not brings up many factors about how societies change and adapt. What kinds of things bring societies down? Will gay marriage crash western civilization? Will it destroy the social foundations? Are all these questions relevant and the rigidness desired by more conservative elements of society are exaggerated like their threat assessment of many things or is the largest decider things very directly or closely related to economics? How the money flows seems so often to be the determining factor - or perhaps in the case of some of the ideas from feminists, they can pat themselves on the back for being very progressive and relevant, but it (advances in the status of women), has to do with some very down to earth things like capabilities that came into existence because of science and innovations?
18 And the man said: The woman thou gavest me, and commandest that she should remain with me, she gave me of the fruit of the tree and I did eat. Moses 4:18