hatersinmyward wrote:Can someone find me a/the scientific explanation for the warm fuzzy feeling you get when you help/serve people?
It is my belief “hatersinmyward” that the term “warm fuzzy feelings” is one that is encouraged by the LDS church ..and that members are encouraged and expect to have “warm fuzzy feelings” at times such as reading the Book of Mormon , praying and perhaps charity work…of which the church encourages such feelings and to talk about them in those terms.
I personally would not describe helping someone as giving me a “warm and fuzzy” feeling. I’m not sure what I would describe as eliciting such a feeling. If “warm and fuzzy” simply means feeling good and highly contented..then the examples I gave in a previous post would apply.
So I did a google search and came across this site
http://www.ldsfamilyfun.com/fhe/fhelessons.htm at which there seems to be a heavy emphases on discussing “feelings” for LDS family home evening lesson plans. Here is a quote from a lesson given in
Lesson Plan: “Behold Thy Mother!”
“This school year we will be working on a Warm and Fuzzy Book of writing.” Mrs. Taft announced.
“When you hear the words warm and fuzzy, what do you think of?”
The class threw out their ideas; puppies, kittins, blankets, etc.
“Now, when you think of these warm and fuzzy things, how do they make you feel inside?”
“Happy, good, cheerful, loved,” the class responded.
“These warm and fuzzy feelings are what I want you to write about. Your first assignment is to write
about your earliest, warm and fuzzy memory,” Mrs. Taft said. “I’ll read the first line of my earliest,
warm and fuzzy memory that I wrote when I was your age as an example.” Mrs. Taft opened a worn
and yellowed booklet and began to read, “When I was just a toddler, I remember my dad picking me
up and gently rubbing my hand across his beard. It would tickle and make me laugh.”
Mindy loved to write. When she got home she hurried to the kitchen, where Mother was singing while
she peeled potatoes. Mindy loved the atmosphere that Mother’s singing brought to their home. Mother
could even get the children to stop fighting and burst into laughter when, in her exaggerated opera voice,
she would sing, “There is beauty all around, when there’s love at home.”
“How was your first day of school as a fifth grader?” asked Mother.
“It was great! This year, each of us gets to make a Warm and Fuzzy Book, filled with our own stories!”
“That sounds fun. When do you start?” Mother asked.
“Tonight. Our first assignment is ‘My First Warm and Fuzzy Memory.’”
On the exmormon board someone yesterday posted these links to a talk by Prof. Bloom on what makes people feel pleasure. I believe this relates to what I was wanting to get at.
http://www.cnn.com/2011/OPINION/08/27/bloom.pleasure/Paul Bloom:
In my book, I proposed that this essentialism not only influences our understanding of the world, it also shapes our experience of the world, including our pleasures. The enjoyment we get from something is powerfully influenced by what we think that thing really is. This is true for intellectual pleasures, such as the appreciation of paintings and stories, and it is true as well for pleasures that seem simpler and more animalistic, such as the satisfaction of hunger and lust.
(Another site with same talk)
http://www.ted.com/talks/paul_bloom_the_origins_of_pleasure.htmlIt is my belief that a reason why Mormons likely feel “warm and fuzzy” feelings (i'll asume they do) for example when reading the Book of Mormon, during prays, due to charity work…is because the individual has been conditioned from a young age to experience such feelings and even if they don’t feel anything they likely feel pressured or obliged to say they do.
So if you believe you are supposed to have such feelings at particular times, it may very well be that’s the reason you do, by being preconditioned to expect such feelings. I personally do not describe good feelings as “warm and fuzzy”. I’d describe drinking a glass of wine or two as eliciting warm fuzzy feelings. That’s why I don’t accept the assumption that everyone or even most people..experience a physical reaction of a “warm and fuzzy” feeling for helping someone.