It was a pretty intense life for a while. I didn’t know it at the time, but the request I made of the Bishop was the equivalent of the Kobayashi Maru: there was no written response to the Tanners’ book. The internet was years away. The church’s response was to direct the members to avoid anti-Mormon literature. Nibley had written his silly response to Brodie, but there was no organized attempt to respond.Gadianton wrote: ↑Sat Aug 27, 2022 8:51 pmPretty intense story Res.
Ha ha. How bad is your position when you know the last thing you can do is even broach the question? Merely uttering the words of the question is so damaging that the quality of any conceivable answer is moot.He gave me a copy of that year’s institute study guide, which was on the Book of Mormon.
Your bishop wasn't wrong, however. He knew there aren't good answers, and even if such a thing as FAIR had existed back then, he wouldn't have gone there either. He did the right thing. He maintained character. "Here son, here's the official party line..." The very best play that he had was to show that he was aware problem but yet stayed the course. Basically, you had to make the choice of whether to do your duty and play your role or move on.
My bishop was similar. I never brought up concerns, but he knew I was into FARMS, and he told me a story of a friend of his who was very intellectual and a devout member, a student of Nibley and had an impressive library. He reached a certain point where he slowed on his studies, and then one by one, gave all his books away. This same bishop was famous for terminating any conversation going anywhere and insisting on "faith and repentance". He was also a very loved seminary teacher. I learned shortly before my father passed that my dad had gone to this (former) bishop as I was slipping into inactivity, and begged this bishop to talk to me. He utterly refused.
I'd always kind of scoffed at this bishop and his superficiality, but years later, I came to realize that he was dead right. To be a good Mormon, you must live in an information silo. And if you don't, it's just way too much work to maintain the virtualized silo that folks like DCP live in.
I was asking the “wrong” questions, so was left to struggle on my own.