just me wrote:Women are not responsible for men's thoughts or sexual urges.
Men should not feel ashamed or guilty for having sexual thoughts or urges.
Women should not feel ashamed of their bodies.
Truth.
I second that! :)
"Have compassion for everyone you meet even if they don't want it. What seems conceit, bad manners, or cynicism is always a sign of things no ears have heard, no eyes have seen. You do not know what wars are going on down there where the spirit meets the bone."--Miller Williams
Women are not responsible for men's thoughts or sexual urges.
Men should not feel ashamed or guilty for having sexual thoughts or urges.
Women should not feel ashamed of their bodies.
So are you ready to prance around in your underwear or birthday suit in public? Why or why not? Do you honestly believe your actions can have no effect on others?
Have you considered that you might be gay?
No. Neither has my wife to whom I prove my heterosexuality on a regular basis.
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Buffalo wrote: Can you prove that Joseph and Brigham weren't lovers?
I think the evidence is solidly in favor of them being lovers. BC Space should not feel ashamed if he gets a tingly feeling "down there" when he sees a topless man.
"We have taken up arms in defense of our liberty, our property, our wives, and our children; we are determined to preserve them, or die." - Captain Moroni - 'Address to the Inhabitants of Canada' 1775
I must confess, I don't go around in fear of letting my thoughts go somewhere unworthy. It seems to me that a sign of being a grown-up is being able to put things in perspective, including the occasional glimpse of flesh. I grew up in Southern California, and most days in the summer we were at the beach, surfing. I saw men and women in various stages of undress, and yet I don't remember ever sitting and ogling, or going home and fantasizing about a girl I'd seen on the beach. When I went on my mission, I had nothing even remotely sexual to repent of, and yet I'd been around girls in bikinis regularly for years.
In short, we are responsible for our own thoughts and actions; if we're at home wanking, we can't blame the "walking pornography" we saw before we got home, and we can't blame the devil. We do good and bad because we want to.
It's shameful that people abdicate responsibility for their choices. bcspace must be a Democrat.
bcspace wrote:In what way have I abdicated my responsibility? What do you think I am advocating?
You said that girls in bikinis make it more difficult for you to have clean thoughts. That is placing at least some of the blame for your thoughts on someone else. Hence, the abdication of responsibility. You own your thoughts, and the girl you saw at the beach does not--not even partially.
I generally agree. Ladies, yes we can and do control our thoughts and actions, but why make it more difficult for us and why send the wrong signals about yourselves?
You are a poor, sad, sexually repressed Mormon male (shocking!)....I am sad for you especially considering you think that every woman wearing a bikini is "sending the wrong signals"...to who? YOU? I am guessing that you are one of those creepy guys that wanders around the beach staring at attractive women and making them feel uncomfortable while convincing yourself that they are trying to lure you in by wearing beach appropriate clothing...you are sick. I live next to laguana beach and there are an army of pathetic old men, like yourself, that wander around ogling the attractive women who choose to dress beach appropriate.
I am sorry that your sex life is so pathetic that seeing women in bikinis causes you concern. Yes, your unfulfilling and boring sex life must be the fault of bikini wearing females. LOL! No wonder you seem like such an uptight douche.
"your reasoning that children should be experimented upon to justify a political agenda..is tantamount to the Nazi justification for experimenting on human beings."-SUBgenius on gay parents "I've stated over and over again on this forum and fully accept that I'm a bigot..." - ldsfaqs