Yeah, I know that, Gaz. I've seen it in Church too many times not to know. Love only to a point (repentance), forgive only to a point (repentance), accept only to a point (repentance). Justifications as to why the Prodigal Son might still not attain "exaltation", while the "faithful son" will "inherit all that the Father has". It's all very "Mormon", and a way of encouraging total devotion "less you lose your heavenly reward". Those who toil one hour cannot possibly receive the same reward as those who toil 12 hours. And so forth.
First of all, "love" had different meanings, and all of them cannot be applied simultaneously. Second, there are distinct differences between the connotations and applicability of the terms "love", "forgive" and "accept". Thirdly, the idea that one who toils one hour will not receive the same reward as one who toils twelve is not Church doctrine, and has been explicitly repudiated numerous times by the Brethren.
It's all very limited and legalistic. "Top dog" gets to heaven by works and obedience, bottom dog eats crumbs for all eternity. Sheep go right, goats go left. Earth consumed by fire, tithe-payers survive, non-tithe-payers burned to a crisp.
I have no idea whatever what your talking about, but I'm trying, believe me, I'm trying.
Maybe that will help you understand why I don't accept the Mormon concept of God. And why I think atheism is growing so very fast. Dawkins has been given a Hawaii tidal wave to surf home with. That's why many don't just turn to atheism, but actively oppose religion, because it confronts the common sense and sense of fairness of most people, and that's why some have called the "Christian God" a "tyrant". It didn't start with Thomas Paine, nor Voltaire, and it's not going to end with Dawkins. But I already know how you feel about all this.
In other words, our God has standards (as we do), grounded in principle, and you would prefer a God who does not. You don't want a God, but a nonjudgmental cosmic therapist who winks and looks the other way at your behavior while filling you with sweet platitudes about "self esteem".
I understand...
As for Dawkins, far more people, both those of higher education and less, are immune to Dawkin's Romper Room atheism than you imply. His own quasi-religious scientism, combined with his lumbering intellectual incompetence in other subject areas he would be required to acquaint himself with substantively to be taken seriously by those other then the already committed Madalyn Murry O' Hair crowd, will not do him much service.