Daniel Peterson wrote:If I were to discover that Ray is a deliberate and brazen liar, yes, it would change my assessment of him.
Fair enough. Though I think you and I will disagree on what constitutes a "brazen liar". In private correspondence when an argument occurs and tempers flair a bit, and one person says, "you called me a &#$^#" and the other guy says, "I did NOT call you a *()*()) you dirty *#&$^#" and both are known to use words like "*&$^#^" freely though perhaps not "&#$^#" specifically, and then there's a whole dispute over whether the correspondence should have been posted in the first place, I think we're strictly in "white lie" territory. It won't really hurt my opinion of Scratch if he lied, though I will publicly rebuke him for it as I said. It will also not hurt my opinion of Ray. Given his consistent inability to respond to posts on point and given that he gets issues confused (case in point, his call for me to PM Scratch confused two entirely separate and distinct comments I'd made, I could make a list of 10 such issues easily, from this thread alone) I can see him thinking "honestly" something that wasn't necessarily so. In fact, I'd trade a lie here and there for an on-target response.
That being said, though, I have considerable confidence, from my knowledge of Ray, that he is not a liar. His honesty is one of his most striking qualities.
Uh yeah. I've always wondered about what there is to admire about absolute brutally brute honesty, with implicating threats and so on. But we are free to admire different things.
I genuinely have no idea why he hates me so implacably.
Did he ever say he hates you? you infer that based on what he's written, but it's possible for others to infer that you hate him based on what you've written to (without conceding who has or hasn't the ultimate moral high ground in your arguments).