Apostacy big winner at oscars

The catch-all forum for general topics and debates. Minimal moderation. Rated PG to PG-13.
_Jason Bourne
_Emeritus
Posts: 9207
Joined: Sun Oct 29, 2006 8:00 pm

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _Jason Bourne »

Ok so what you are saying is that organizations can discriminate and you don't have a problem with that.


The Church has a right to set up established rules for membership in its society. It is not a government nor a country. It does not support withholding any legal rights from homosexuals at all, the only caveat being that it opposes extended marriage to that group. However, the opposition on that issue is performed through civic and legal channels.

This is no different than the Catholic Church denying priest status to women.

I believe you also see the LDS church as providing a moral compass for people and you think Gaz's attitude is not a reflection of the Church's position


I have no doubt that the leaders of the LDS Church would condemn Gaz's comments here.

I see a problem with that. I see the LDS Church as being largely responsible for Gaz's attitude of open honesty with his rejection of homosexuals who speak out in favor of acceptance of their lifestyle, as the screen writer did.


Please find my official LDS statements or even comments by LDS leaders espousing Gaz's approach. Did you read any of the link I posted so you could get and overview of what the LDS Church really says about this?


For this particular issue homosexuality, I don't see the Church being a moral compass which is grounded in good ethics.


I understand that and I understand the world view you hold would lead you to this conclusion.


If a person is born a particular way, and they aren't harming others, I don't see it as ethically right to discriminate against them on the basis of how they were born, such that ultimately it is likely to cause them to suffer.


Many think this is a BIG IF. The verdict is out on this.

I think the phrase "love the sinner hate the sin" is hollow.


I don't care. This is a fundamental Christian principle and people actually can and are able to accomplish it. You reject Christian ethics and commands so of course you would reach this conclusion. Do you think the teachings to love your enemies, do good to those who are abusive towards you and turn the other cheek equally hollow?

"Love" is a fickle emotion,


No it is not. Love also runs a large range of emotion.


"respect" is what is important when it come to good ethics


Who set up this rule?

The Church teaches homosexuality is a sin,


The Chuch teaches lots of things are sin. It certainly does not disrespect everyone for every act of sin.


that in turn teaches disrespect towards the right of anyone who defends homosexuality as that screen writer did which Gaz objected to, and it teaches disrespect for a fundamental aspect of an individual.


One really can respect much about a person without respecting every thing the person does.

Of course if one thinks that homosexuality is simply a choice and harmful to society, then the argument which rests on it being inate, doesn't apply.


Of course this changes it somewhat.

But since homosexuality is found in nature and animals don't make choices based on reasoning and since homosexuals themselves say they are born that way and since there is little to be gained by being homosexual and generally hardship I don't think the argument that it is a choice, a self indulgent one at that, is justified.



You may be correct. I lean that way too. You may not be. This issue is far from resolved.
So in my opinion rather than being critical of Gaz I think you should consider that the Church is responsible and the church is ultimately all those people who support it, yourself being one


Hardly. The Church is not responsible for Gaz's hate.
_marg

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _marg »

Well Jason,

If the phrase, "love the sinner, hate the sin" is applicable (I'm not saying I agree with that phrase) however for discussion purposes I'll use it, then why shouldn't the church take that same approach that you say Christians should use? Why shouldn't they do what you expect of Gaz and let God be the judge, accept homosexuals in the Church without placing restrictions on them?

by the way this is a separate thought, but I have a vague idea of what a religious person means by sin. My understanding it's basically going against God by definition of whatever that religious group defines as going against God.

Do you think conceptually "sin" is similar to "universal ethics"? By universal ethics I mean that the reasons given for why an act is morally right or wrong can be argued for objectively and accepted.
_Jersey Girl
_Emeritus
Posts: 34407
Joined: Wed Oct 25, 2006 1:16 am

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _Jersey Girl »

marg: "Love" is a fickle emotion,


Jason: No it is not. Love also runs a large range of emotion.

Love is also a behavior or act. But what if we use this definition from Merriam-Webster?

4 a: unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1): the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2): brotherly concern for others b: a person's adoration of God




I'm generally unhappy with the presence of these ads.

[]Strongly agree [] Agree []Disagree []Strongly Disagree
Failure is not falling down but refusing to get up.
Chinese Proverb
_marg

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _marg »

Jersey Girl wrote:marg: "Love" is a fickle emotion,


Jason: No it is not. Love also runs a large range of emotion.

Love is also a behavior or act. But what if we use this definition from Merriam-Webster?

4 a: unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1): the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2): brotherly concern for others b: a person's adoration of God


Yes I brought these definitions up with Jason. But if we use "brotherly concern for others" how is not allowing homosexuals who admit to homosexuality, to attend Church, a show of brotherly concern? How is calling their behavior a sin, showing brotherly concern?

The assumption is that homosexuality is wrong, so on what basis or reasoning? Is the reasoning ethically based?
_Jason Bourne
_Emeritus
Posts: 9207
Joined: Sun Oct 29, 2006 8:00 pm

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _Jason Bourne »

Well Jason,


Yes marg
If the phrase, "love the sinner, hate the sin" is applicable (I'm not saying I agree with that phrase)


You don't have to agree with it for it to be able to be a reality in some peoples lives and in the way they live their lives and view the world.


however for discussion purposes I'll use it, then why shouldn't the church take that same approach that you say Christians should use?


The Church is part of the Christian fold and the Church leaders teach this. I have had it taught to me all my life.

Why shouldn't they do what you expect of Gaz and let God be the judge, accept homosexuals in the Church without placing restrictions on them?


I think the leap is illogical. Why shouldn't they let murderers and rapists and people who steal money be members with no restrictions? Why have any code of conduct or expectations of behavior or a moral code at all?

by the way this is a separate thought, but I have a vague idea of what a religious person means by sin. My understanding it's basically going against God by definition of whatever that religious group defines as going against God.


Well God commanding it is certainly a part of it yes. Though one could argue that the commandments of God are rooted in moral ethics. And if one thinks that religion is a man made thing anyway then ultimately all these commandments had their roots in some cultures moral ethics at one time or another.

That said, if indeed the commandments are shaped more by the time and culture of the religion than by some extra terrestrial power, it does seem that modifications should be made as humans become more enlightened.

On the other hand many argue removing God from the picture relieves us of basis constraints that the natural man/woman seems to need to help govern them. I know many of the United States founding fathers felt this way. Even Jefferson who was not a believer in any one particular religion seemed to lean towards the governing power of a creator and restraints being places on humans by that creator.


Do you think conceptually "sin" is similar to "universal ethics"? By universal ethics I mean that the reasons given for why an act is morally right or wrong can be argued for objectively and accepted.


To a certain extent. But there certainly can be and is the "God says it so do it" attitude that can bring us problems at times. For example, when Joseph Smith was trying to persuade Nancy Rigdon to enter plural marriage with him he wrote in a letter that in essence said what God says goes and sometimes he changes his commands. At one point he may say thou shalt not kill and another go and destroy. Of course his argument was that God was now saying it was a ok to have more than one wife. All I can think when I read this letter by Smith is "Well if what you say is true I am going to be damn sure the man that says God is commanding and changing his mind is really speaking for God before I follow it." And of course that is problematic now isn't it. It puts a lot of power into the hands of that person that claims God is speaking through him.

So, for me it is somewhat of a dilemma at times.
_harmony
_Emeritus
Posts: 18195
Joined: Fri Oct 27, 2006 1:35 am

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _harmony »

marg wrote:Why shouldn't they do what you expect of Gaz and let God be the judge, accept homosexuals in the Church without placing restrictions on them?


That is exactly what the church has done. Just because you don't like what he said doesn't mean he hasn't spoken. God, speaking through his mouthpiece the prophet, has spoken regarding homosexuals. The restrictions are a result of God telling his prophet what is expected of homosexuals (which in many ways is exactly what he expects of heterosexuals).

God, and the LDS church, does not demand that a gay man not be gay. God can, and probably will, change his mind about the role gay men and women can play in the church.. He's been known to do that in the past, and I see no reason to expect anything different in this.

I now need to go brush my teeth. bleah bleah bleah :ugeek:
(Nevo, Jan 23) And the Melchizedek Priesthood may not have been restored until the summer of 1830, several months after the organization of the Church.
_marg

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _marg »

harmony wrote:
That is exactly what the church has done. Just because you don't like what he said doesn't mean he hasn't spoken. God, speaking through his mouthpiece the prophet, has spoken regarding homosexuals.


Is this something you truly believe?

If so how do you know it's not the devil speaking through Church prophets?

Didn't Smith allegedly use that excuse one time, and say that a revelation which didn't pan out must have been of the devil? It had to do with getting the Book of Mormon printed I believe.
_marg

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _marg »

You don't have to agree with it for it to be able to be a reality in some peoples lives and in the way they live their lives and view the world.


I did a search of the phrase and learned it's not biblical, M. Ghandi is the one noted for coining the phrase "love the sinner, hate the sin".

By using that phrase one is being judgmental despite any claim to the contrary. One is describing a group of people as not being obedient to a God. You can argue as you did that it's not up to individuals to judge, that it's up to God, but then Harmony replied that prophets in the Church speak on behalf of God.

So certainly according to her, God says homosexuals are sinning. Is that in the Bible by the way, that homosexuals are sinning?



Why shouldn't they do what you expect of Gaz and let God be the judge, accept homosexuals in the Church without placing restrictions on them?


I think the leap is illogical. Why shouldn't they let murderers and rapists and people who steal money be members with no restrictions? Why have any code of conduct or expectations of behavior or a moral code at all?


And this is the problem that homosexuals have, I believe. You are tying in homosexuality to being immoral. By what reasoning is it ethically immoral?
_Ray A

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _Ray A »

Jersey Girl wrote:So yes, Daniel, I have two copies of the Book of Mormon, I've made sincere attempts to read and understand it. I started doing so 30 years ago and still do so to this day.


You have two copies, yet you've read neither completely? I presume that's what you mean by "sincere attempts"? Have you made a "sincere attempt" at Who really Wrote The Book of Mormon? yet? I seriously doubt it. It has taken you 30 years (?) to make how many "sincere attempts" at reading the Book of Mormon?

Yet, here you are, declaring "who really wrote the Book of Mormon", with virtually no understanding of its content and complexity.

Way to go.
_harmony
_Emeritus
Posts: 18195
Joined: Fri Oct 27, 2006 1:35 am

Re: Apostacy big winner at oscars

Post by _harmony »

Jason Bourne wrote:
Ok so what you are saying is that organizations can discriminate and you don't have a problem with that.


The Church has a right to set up established rules for membership in its society. It is not a government nor a country. It does not support withholding any legal rights from homosexuals at all, the only caveat being that it opposes extended marriage to that group. However, the opposition on that issue is performed through civic and legal channels.

This is no different than the Catholic Church denying priest status to women.


I have a problem with your last sentence, Jason. The Mormon church also denies the priesthood to women. Are you lumping women with homosexuals? That it's okay to discriminate against women because the church has the right to discriminate as it sees fit? Gay men are allowed to hold the priesthood, if I remember correctly. So essentially the only group the church discriminates against is women.
(Nevo, Jan 23) And the Melchizedek Priesthood may not have been restored until the summer of 1830, several months after the organization of the Church.
Post Reply