wenglund wrote:Mister Scratch wrote:wenglund wrote:I used to do this same sort of thing with the online antagonist against my faith. In relation to them, I posted pictures of Dumb & Dumber, Beavis and Butthead, Chicken Little, Alfred E Newman, Ruth Buzzy hitting Art Carney with her purse, etc.
But, I have since, for the most part, matured and corrected the character flaws and the cognitive distortions driving that need to disparage others in that juvenile way.
However, at the time, I posted the pictures directly to the individuals themselves so they could respond in-kind if they wished, rather smearing them behind their back on a board where I knew they didn't participate. Such a behavior would have been even too low for me then.
Thanks, -Wade Englund-
Nothing is happening "behind juliann's back", Wade. That you would think that is clearly a cog. distortion.
I wasn't aware that Juliann was a participant on this board. What screen name has she been posting under?
Also, I wasn't aware that the posts about her above were directed specifically to her. Can you explain why you think that they were?
juliann posted roughly a dozen times on the previous incarnation of this board.
More to the point, what would "behind Juliann's back" look like to you, if not when talking about her on a board where she is not a participant?
Thanks, -Wade Englund-
I think it would have to happen in person. I think that "talking behind juliann's back" isn't possible on an online, public messageboard.