moksha wrote:Runtu wrote: Kind of funny, though, that they had to find canned testimonies.
Yes, it would have been much more authentic if they could have had someone like GIMR, who could have discussed both the good and the bad when it comes to being black and LDS. I suspect the raw answers would ultimately have suited the best interest of black LDS members, without flecks of PR aaround the edges.
Juliann had me. I gave the good and the bad. She didn't want that, remember. :-) People like Scott and Juliann really don't want to face what it's like to be black and LDS. They don't want to face that fact that the church hasn't really come all that far on this issue.
The fact of the matter is that the church is a generation behind when it comes to race issues. The fact of the matter is that the church still sees black people as some sort of oddity. The fact of the matter is that the church still assumes that culturally I'm closer to an African man than I am a White American male, which is not true. I speak the same language as a White American Male. We eat similar foods, were born in the same country, stand a chance of liking the same music, books (and this can be with African men too, but they also have literature and art I've probably never heard of). I can't stand Fufu...I'm sorry. I've been blessed to have a stepmother who was from Uganda, and African neighbors who have taught me about their culture, and it is vastly different than mine. The Washington Post once did a wonderful article on how Africans and African Americans are really distant cousins at best...
The LDS church is just doing PR work on this issue. When I went on FAIR and tried to talk about this Juilann had an apoplectic fit that anyone DARED to cross her carefully laid plans of how things were supposed to look.
Let me tell you something: all of the black LDS women I know are not dating white men. The one black LDS woman I know who is married married an Asian man. The white men we came across would not touch us. In a ward of 500 that I was baptized into, there were 5 black women. We either didn't date or dated outside the church. Beautiful, accomplished women. How glad I am to be away from all that! To be made to feel less than for being a black woman! Humph.