• You’re speaking as an individual member of the Church, sharing personal perspectives. Don’t leave an impression that you are speaking officially for the Church. It’s your own experiences that will be insightful and interesting.
I simply point out what the Church officially has said.
• Remember that “a soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger” (Proverbs 15:1). It almost never helps to argue or contend with others regarding your beliefs or to become defensive or belligerent. Just share your stories in a kind and gentle way, remembering that not everyone will agree with what you say—and that’s okay. Remember to respect others and their opinions.
I never argue or am contentious. I tell it to you straight up and never lie or beat around the bush.
• Be friendly and polite, even if you comment anonymously. Act like you would if you were talking to your next door neighbor. How you comment may be just as important as what you say.
I put my money where my mouth is. If an apostle of the Lord embraced socialism, I would tell him straight up that such is not worthy of the kingdom of heaven and that he is in direct opposition to the Church. D&C 88:81
• What helps the most are thoughtful and measured voices that explain the Church and what it’s like to be a member.
I've put in quite a bit of thought into and measure my words very carefully.
• Be relevant. Discuss the gospel where it’s the topic of conversation. Be cautious about trying to force a conversation about gospel topics.
I don't start very many threads.
• Everything you say or write could be on the Internet forever. Remember you’re always on the record.
Here I am. My mind does not change with the rising and setting of a few suns. Frankly, I think threads like this are started by those wanting their ears scratched.