Homosexual Marriage and Views on Marriage

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rcrocket wrote:
I don't deny that in the heavily Hellenized New Testament church (which tended, by the way, to consider sex in general-- not just premarital sex-- a lesser way) pre-marital sex was probably considered sinful.


You completely sidestepped my point. Your original argument was that the Bible couldn't be really trusted to have condemned extramarital sex due to nuances in translation. I then pointed out the two hundred years of anteNicean father commentary disagreed with you completely and without exception. You respond by mushing together Platonic thought with Christian doctrine to claim that Platonic minimization of the importance of the physical means that sex was considered sinful. Huh?

My original premise remains. The fathers denounced for two hundred years extramarital sex and did not even come close to the position you now think Christians should adopt. See, in particular, the entry "Fornication" in Metzger, The Oxford Companion to the Bible," pointing out that grounds for divorce could include both pre-marital and extra-marital sex. St. Ambrose's writings plainly demonstrate the view -- and non-Greek I might add -- of the penalties for pre-marital sex. See Johnson, A History of Christianity, 108-10.

Your view is what I would call a "new age" view of Christianity; Jesus feeding his lambs; accepting all people; love and peace for all, including adulterers and homosexuals, abortionists, infanticidists. Your continued pro-gay and pro-Hedonistic stance just will never fly with God. As the Study Guide for the NIV points out, for Rev. 2:20 -- the sin of Thyatira was tolerating a woman in their congregation who promoted sexual immorality. Pergamum's sin was tolerating a man in their congregation who promoted sexual immorality. Rev. 2:14.

When Paul was making his play on words -- cut off -- those sinners in the midst of the Church, he was demonstrating the seriousness of the sin.
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CaliforniaKid wrote:
Wow. I wish I could have written that because you take out the being an evangelical part and those are my sentiments exactly!


Great minds... :ugeek:



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Robert,

My point with respect to porneia was that our English Bibles translate it with the highly specific term "fornication", which means "voluntary sexual intercourse between two unmarried persons or two persons not married to each other." In Greek the term is non-specific, and it is used in the New Testament to described a wide range of sexual sins. While the New Testament writers probably would have classified fornication as a kind of porneia, that is not the necessary or exclusive meaning of the term; the Christian condemnation of fornication, then, relies on inference rather than on an explicit biblical prohibition.

rcrocket wrote:I then pointed out the two hundred years of anteNicean father commentary disagreed with you completely and without exception.


You haven't actually cited any Ante-Nicene Fathers, so I'm not really sure what you think they establish. But I am assuming you think they establish that early Christians considered pre-marital sex a kind of porneia. I don't disagree with that assessment, and don't think it controverts any argument I have made.

You respond by mushing together Platonic thought with Christian doctrine to claim that Platonic minimization of the importance of the physical means that sex was considered sinful. Huh?


Actually I said "Hellenistic," not Platonic, and I referred to a negative view of the passions as well as to a negative view of matter. Negativity toward the passions was more a Stoic concept than a Platonic one, though in the first century Judaism and Stoicism and Platonism and Christianity were all so mushed together that it's sometimes hard to tell where the one ends and the other begins. Thus the term "Hellenistic".

My point here was that the (presumed) apostolic view of pre-marital sex was rooted in a historically-conditioned worldview, and that since we don't share that worldview or its presuppositions, we should not feel bound to submit to its strictures (especially where the biblical text does not make said strictures explicit).

The fathers denounced for two hundred years extramarital sex and did not even come close to the position you now think Christians should adopt.


Is there some reason we should have expected them to?

See, in particular, the entry "Fornication" in Metzger, The Oxford Companion to the Bible," pointing out that grounds for divorce could include both pre-marital and extra-marital sex.


It is significant that this was grounds for divorce, but not for stoning, purification, or other religiously-imposed punishments. A non-virginal bride is used merchandise, and can be discarded as such, but the offense she has committed (as I indicated in my last post) is against the honor of husband and father rather than against God.

St. Ambrose's writings plainly demonstrate the view -- and non-Greek I might add -- of the penalties for pre-marital sex.


St. Ambrose can hardly be described as "non-Greek." Ambrose's very Greek way of reading the Bible was what enabled Augustine to reconcile biblical Christianity with his Neoplatonic and Stoic worldview.

Your view is what I would call a "new age" view of Christianity; Jesus feeding his lambs; accepting all people; love and peace for all, including adulterers and homosexuals, abortionists, infanticidists. Your continued pro-gay and pro-Hedonistic stance just will never fly with God. As the Study Guide for the NIV points out, for Rev. 2:20 -- the sin of Thyatira was tolerating a woman in their congregation who promoted sexual immorality. Pergamum's sin was tolerating a man in their congregation who promoted sexual immorality. Rev. 2:14.


No doubt your "old age" deity will cackle with glee as I burn for all eternity in the fires of hell, and as worms devour my rotting flesh. I'll take my chances with the Jesus who feeds his lambs, thank you very much.

I beg to join your "Great minds..." Club... Plllllllllllleeeeeeeeaaaaaaassssssssssssseeeeeeee... It's where I belong... Well, at least on this topic.


I think we have room for one more. :wink: (Hmm... we need some kind of hazing ritual for this club of ours...) Cheers, Roger!

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Here's my opinion.

Human population growth is an issue facing the survival of this planet. Resources are running out. Mormons who have huge families should feel a little guilty of this, just like someone who doesn't recycle or wantonly pollutes. To offset their population emission, Mormons and other folks with big families (say, five children or more) should sponsor a homosexual couple who agrees not to have any children.
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Cap n' Trade, eh Dude? That might get the Mormons on the gay marriage bandwagon...
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CaliforniaKid wrote:
It is too hard to a lot of women to suddenly flip the switch from sex being a vile, disgusting sin to a beautiful act between a loving couple.


It can be hard for men, too. I remember in high school experiencing real anxiety at the thought of getting married someday and having to engage in sexual intercourse.


Been there. Wait...will probably be there till I've been married like 4.6 years.
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Seven wrote:I guess I would be considered a non believer (NOM) that still values chastity before marriage and total fidelity. I also voted "no" on Prop 8 but my feelings for supporting gay marriage and chastity are not related to "sin". I do realize the guilt associated with sexuality instilled as a Mormon will always be with me but I've never viewed sex as "ewww."

There are many non religious reasons why I believe marriage (gay or straight) is better for society and our spiritual growth.
If homosexuals are allowed to marry and commit in a stable monogamous relationship that's a good thing for society & their children in my opinion, vs. the promiscuous lifestyle that is so pervasive in that community. There are legal issues with children of homosexuals that also strongly influenced my vote.


Hi, Seven. I took a while to reply because I wanted to think about your response a bit. I'm glad to see you although I'm weaning myself away from the board (I keep typing that and hopefully I'll actually do it).

I think I understand your sentiments here and they rest on the importance of stabilizing the relationships and that you are a believer in the benefits of heterosexual marriage in creating a better environment for children and society so that you want to extend this to homosexuals, too. I understand that, completely. I respect that, too.
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Re: Homosexual Marriage and Views on Marriage

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CaliforniaKid wrote:
It is too hard to a lot of women to suddenly flip the switch from sex being a vile, disgusting sin to a beautiful act between a loving couple.

It can be hard for men, too. I remember in high school experiencing real anxiety at the thought of getting married someday and having to engage in sexual intercourse.

That was not an anxiety from which I suffered ;-).

The only anxiety from which I suffered was whether or not I would make it to the Celestial Kingdom in light of the difficulties I had ceasing from the crime second only to murder, that defilement of one's own temple. Now, that is quite a mind job. Bah!
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Re: Homosexual Marriage and Views on Marriage

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Sethbag wrote:That was not an anxiety from which I suffered ;-).


Hah! Yeah, well, I grew out of it.

I think. :mrgreen:
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Re: Homosexual Marriage and Views on Marriage

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Well I'll throw another opinion here. When you get old, and you're no longer driven by testosterone, you realise that the only true meaningful relationship is a monogamous one, with the person you love. If you don't find it, then resort to imagination.

But this Mormon concept of "plural marriage" is quite sick. It's priesthood on spiritual wife testosterone. Like the "brother" who told me he had 200 wives "prepared" for "him" in the CK. What creates this perverted thinking?

You guess.
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