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Last week I was counseling a friend who had left the LDS church. As he recounted to me his story, it was interesting to note that apologetics (FAIR and FARMS in particular) were a precursor to his leaving the church–and a strong source for his abiding anger/resentment, and resistance to returning.
I probably get at least 2-3 emails a week from folks who have left the church–and I’m surprised at how many of these people not only delved into apologetics before they left–but also look back upon their experience w/ apologetics in almost disgust. Is it possible that the general approach/effect of arch-apologists like Dan Peterson and Louis Midgley–is actually NEGATIVE with respect to helping people retain their faith in the LDS Church? I am sure that they get short-term emails expressing gratitude for what they’ve done–so I’m speaking more in the medium-long term.
Recent postings by Lou Midgley and Dan Peterson in the bloggernacle are benign examples of what I mean. If you want the full banana….check out the FAIR Message Boards. Blech. Yuck. I almost feel dirty linking to that post.
It is difficult to say just what apologists do for members who are comtemplating leaving the LDS church. How can apologists help to get people to reconsider their leaving the LDS church?
Well, why me, in some cases the apologists are "tapped" by the Strengthening Church Members Committee. The apologists meet with these struggling members, sometimes for hours, attempting to "fix" things.
And I do believe that the LDS church appreciates what the apologists are doing. I would assume that no one would interfere and order a tone down. It seems rather bizarre to assume so.
Well, why me, we know that some of the Brethren have not looked upon Mopologetics with an approving eye. We also know that some of the Mopologists have been responsible for causing apostasy. Further, we know that a derogatory "quip" was made about the
FARMS Review and that, shortly after that, many of the major apologists ended their relationship with SHIELDS.
"[I]f, while hoping that everybody else will be honest and so forth, I can personally prosper through unethical and immoral acts without being detected and without risk, why should I not?." --Daniel Peterson, 6/4/14