(It's a good thing you answered, because I was about to go off on an obsessive rant).
I will avoid those at all costs. :)
If you are thinking of the instruction that I think you are referring to, then Christians are to be ready to answer regarding the hope we have.
Not bash the other guy bloody.
Yep. I agree with you. BrianH may not, and therefor what he's offered is fodder for discussion. Implicit, though, is that one should challenge false hope so that the real hope may be contrasted. I think you and I agree that we wouldn't do this in the way BrianH has, our sensibilities don't make us right. I'm willing, at this point, to concede that those sensibilities make us diffferent.
Jesus reserved his harshest criticism for the hypocrites of the religious community. Is this not so?
It would seem Jesus wasn't always terribly nice to the apostles either. More harsh to hypocrites? Probably. But its not as if the apostles were immune from Jesus' impatience either.