RayAgostini wrote:Is there a place for the "ethic Mormon" in the Church today? I don't know, but it doesn't seem that way (not that I'm whining about it, nor begrudging those who want to try to find a place). I think there was more of a place for them yesteryear. I could identify as a "cultural Mormon", that is, one in basic agreement with many "Mormon values", and even some Mormon beliefs, but if it's going to "spoil the party", I'd rather remain outside. No point hailing stones at "the party", simply because I don't pay its taxes, obey/like its laws, support its leaders, and don't live in that country.
Well, Ray, you're here on this board, participating in this community that largely revolves around things LDS. Some of us would say that, contrary to your protestations, you still are, in many ways, Mormon. I can imagine someone forwarding a persuasive academic argument that your own denial of that fact should not be considered decisive.
In my view the only thing we are arguing about is how open people should be allowed to be about various states and versions of belief while still openly affiliating with the community in some way. It is not as though there are not people who believe all kinds of things, or don't believe them, who participate in the LDS Church at all levels. People have differing views on matters as fundamental as what a testimony is, that most important marker of LDS identity. Some feel it is a powerful, life-changing epiphany, others just a sense that Mormonism works. With such a range of experience and views, I find it laughable that anyone presumes to claim Mormon as this narrow, bcspace-like category which only the purest in doctrine and ideology may occupy.
Any community has these nuts who insist that Democrats are communists, or Republican are Nazis, or people who use contraception are apostates. The problem with a lot of apologists is that, even in spite of broader views they have in other areas, they often come across as these extremist, exclusionary bigots in their writings. They seem to be fighting the culture wars in their publications, and this muddies the waters as badly or worse than the idiosyncrasies and alleged heresies of the people they go after.
Being so close to this, it seems to me you have declared your surrender with your mouth, Ray, but your feet are still firmly grounded in the community of those whose life is steeped in Mormonism in one way or another. I find that highly interesting.