It's sure nice to know I don't have to be "judged" by some guy who thinks he's entitled to ask for proof of my financials.
You want welfare and other benefits? You must deliver proof of your requirement. I like that because my generous donations go towards that fund and I wouldn't want it wasted on some handout with no evidence that it's needed or being spent appropriately.
That you think this is completely OK is screwed up.
The government requires the same thing. You pay taxes (hopefully)? You would want there to be some accountability by and who it's spent on wouldn't you?
The difference is that you are free to leave the Church. You are not so free when it comes to living in the USA these days as there are fewer alternatives.