drumdude wrote: ↑Wed Jun 30, 2021 5:18 pm
This is such a Mormon trope, the bizarre cultish way of treating someone who leaves the church. "I don't know where he went wrong, I have to be really careful here because [stuff I can't say related to his falling away but I'll hint at publicly here] and I'm just leaving it alone [even though we republished his article, something he immediately noticed]."
Complete lack of empathy or understanding on Peterson's part, which is of course not surprising.
Isn't the conversion phenomenon mysterious? I don't know how well you remember David Bokovoy before his conversion out of Mormonism, but he was happy to mix it up with the online critics, me included. I always liked him, but I was a little miffed at him on occasion, especially when it came to his participation in the criticism of Grant Palmer. Then, gradually it seemed, his life changed. Some of it was prompted by big family events, and some of it was brought on by his independent streak and courage. I recall him saying things in front of Brian Hales that made me go pale. Not because I was shocked by them, but because I knew how Brian Hales would likely receive them.
I don't know what David's friendship with DCP was like, but I know they were friends for quite a while and that they remained friends after BYU froze David out from employment at BYU.
I marvel at the changes because, when you think about it, all such changes are in their own way remarkable. Sure, we have our own reactions based on our own opinions and approach. Those who have left the LDS Church think leaving is the right thing for most and only natural given the fact that it is not "true" (whatever that means). Those who remain in often can't understand why anyone would leave the truth and all of the blessings of the gospel. It is mysterious to them. Those outside the LDS Church can't understand in any fair or positive way why people remain in. They must be weak. They must be duped. They must be . . . . (fill in the blank with some other patronizing explanation).
Of course, LDS people will say their own insulting things about those who leave.
If this were not mysterious to us on some level, we would not continue to see this behavior.
"I have learned with what evils tyranny infects a state. For it frustrates all the virtues, robs freedom of its lofty mood, and opens a school of fawning and terror, inasmuch as it leaves matters not to the wisdom of the laws, but to the angry whim of those who are in authority.”