why me wrote:I tend to look at Mormonism holistically and not piece by piece. The critics here take a defined stance: Joseph Smith was a horny toad. I cannot take that stance. Also if critics would hedge their bets a little and leave open the possibility that he wasn't a horney toad, the critics and I would find much to discuss. But this definite horney toadism that the critics have taken gets my backside up.
Walmart just for the record "horny toad" is your term, I don't see anyone else using it. I guess it's OK because everyone knows what it implies. I don't care if Joe was a horny toad for two years or twenty years I definitely believe that Joe had sex with all those women. At least once or he didn't fulfill the definition of marriage. He knew what marriage was and that it required a consummation.
In your argument against horny toadism I can see a point in that direction, Joe married married women and then turned them back to their husbands. The reasons for that could be many. Maybe they weren't a good lay. Maybe they weren't as pretty. Maybe he was afraid of the husbands but brave enough to lay with them at least once and taste the goods. I don't know the real reasons.
But I do know that no matter which way you look at this practice of polygamy and Joe's use of if it has every look of sinfulness and if that is horny toadism then it is horny toadism. I can take that stance. The stance I can't take is that all of this behavior is from God. There is no way that God sanctioned all this behavior. God, man, common sense, Mormon or Catholic knows what marriage is and what adultery is. This all makes more sense to claim this came from Satan masquerading as an "Angel of Light" than to say it comes from God.
The best and most favorable light I can shed on Joseph Smith was that he was insane.
I am sorry for you that you can't see what is plain and clear in front of your face.
why me wrote:Now as far as the catholics go well, just yesterday I got into a discussion as to whether Mormons were christian with a catholic friend of mine. This friend is rather dogmatic, opus deiish type. He was a little shocked that I considered Mormons to be christian. I have my ideas about faith. I see goodness in catholicism and in Mormonism. And at this moment I am more involved with catholicism. But I cannot say that the Mormons are wrong. I have no proof that they are wrong. And I cannot say that the catholics are wrong. I just know that I am more committed to the catholic church at this moment.
You have no proof that the Catholics are right. You have no idea where you belong. I don't know where you should be "more committed" but I have some ideas. I am sure that your Catholic leaders and friends would be more likely to agree with me on this issue than you.
why me wrote:As one nun said to me: We will know more when we die. And I agree with that.
This is the most sane thing you have written im this whole thread but yet it is something that is blatantly obvious to everyone.