cksalmon wrote:wenglund wrote:plenty of valid reasons to think this issue is still in dispute
I didn't see this last exchange. I will accept this correction and will no longer consider the issue of the sealing in dispute.Thanks, -Wade Englund-
Wade--
What I find frankly just plain
weird is the amount of prodding it took to convince you that this fact was not in dispute. You were finally convinced by the fact that Charity found it on IGI, but not by the fact that Van Wagoner cited it in his book?
I guess you mustn't have even searched IGI yourself. You just assumed, for some (apparently-then-but-no-longer-valid) reason that the story was bunk. You mentioned numerous valid reasons to dispute it. But, on the strength of Charity's testimony alone, you've now concluded that the sealing is not in dispute.
What pray tell were these numerous valid reasons to dispute it (there are "plenty of valid reasons to think this issue is still in dispute")? You mentioned specifically more than one. Yet, now that you've been assured that IGI lists it, you've given over to the fact. What gives? What were the other valid reasons to dispute the assertion in the first place? I mean, you must have more than one, right? You mentioned several. Let's hear them, by all means.
What your acceptance of this sealing (in the light of TBM Charity's finding of it on IGI) demonstrates, if anything, is your utter reticence to believe something suggested by critics of the Church, if it contradicts your own personal view of things.
If an anti-Mormon quotes a reputable source (like Van Wagoner), you maintain that it is merely a secondary source, unconfirmed--I don't have any reason to accept it. But then when you're apprised of the fact that Charity found it on IGI, you immediately acquiesce? Again, what's the deal?
Where are the other "plenty" reasons for which you dismissed the claim in the first place?
Your partisan, "anti-Mormons-are-liars," "I-don't-have-to-believe-it-unless-someone-posts-an-image-file-of-the-original-document" attitude is showing here. And you assured others that you were perfectly willing to accept criticism of the Church. Yet, you can't even admit, until Charity's find, that the BY-Brotherton sealing was legitimate?
I really would like to be privy to the other "plenty" of reasons why you so confidently dismissed this claim in the first place. Consider this, in old FAIRboard style, a call for references.
Goodness. CKS
Here is how things transpired for me.
1) The claim was made by a non-believer that there was evidence of Martha being sealed to BY. This evidence was from a secondary source (VanWagoner) that made claims regarding a primary source (the Endowment House records). At that point, I accepted that secondary-sourced evidence at face value (contrary to what you suggest now).
2) Later, several people mentioned that they had search current Church records, and found no record of the alleged sealing. I took that counter-claim at face value and at that point reasonably viewed the matter in dispute.
3) This evening Beastie, who happens to be a non-believer, brought to my attention that a believer was able to find the sealing records. I accepted Beastie's statement at face, and at that point no longer considered the matter in dispute.
So, contrary to what you suggested, it took no "prodding" for me to accept this. Rather, it took a reasonable resolution to the dispute.
Contrary to what you suggest, at no time did I think or suggest that the Vanwagoner sitation was "bunk". I mearly thought it in dispute (which means that the question of its verity was still open, and yet to be confirmed one way or the other.)
Contrary to what you suggest, it was not Charity's statement, but T-shirts statement as quoted by Beastie, and unconfirmed by me (I took both Beasties and T-shirt at their word) that I reasonably viewed the disput as no longer a disput.
Contrary to what you suggest, I didn't say there were "many reasons", I said there were "plenty of reasons". In this case, one reason, from multiple sources, was plenty in my mind.
Contrary to what you suggest, my innitially taking Don and VanWagoner at their word, and my later taking Beastie at her word, mitigates against your wild conjecture that I have been reticent to believe what critics say when it it contradicts what i believe (during the disput, I had yet to formulate a belief one way or the other, but was perfectly content to test all the data to see what it all suggests).
My considering VanWagoner to be a secondary source had nothing to do with whether he is a so-called "anti-Mormon" or not (I certainly have yet to call him that, nor would I consider him such--contrary to what you claim). Rather, it has everything to do with his being a secondary source (by definition, if someone cites an original source, the person doing the citing is a secondary source).
Contrary to what you suggest, I intitially considered, and do now consider Vanwagoner's statement as confirmed unless there is evidence that brings it again in dispute.
And, contrary to what you suggest, nothing I said could in any reasonable way be interpreted as me claiming "anti-Mormons-are-liars," or implying an attitude of "I-don't-have-to-believe-it-unless-someone-posts-an-image-file-of-the-original-document", or that I wouldn't accept criticism. The truth is, again, I innitially accepted Don's and VanWagner's criticism, and I now accept their criticism. To think that I have demonstrated otherwise is...well, just "weird".
What I find most interesting about this string of self-righteous and demonstrable falsehoods from you, and your call for citations for comments that you have misconstrued, is that in your openning post on that thread you said: "According to Brotherton, she was barely off the boat from England (her family having made the journey from Manchester, England, to join the Saints at Nauvoo) when she was confronted by Kimball, Young, and Joseph Smith about beginning a polygamous relationship with Young."
The truth of the matter is, Martha made no such claim about "barely off the boat". According to her own affidavit, she had been three weeks in Nauvoo at the time of the alleged incident. And, according to other historical records, we learn that she and her family had landed at Warsaw, Ill. (which is 20 miles from Nauvoo), in November of 1841. settled at that time in nearby Warren, and didn't travel to Nauvoo for at least a month and a half (the January of 1842--if Don's conjecture is to be believed), and if portions of her story are to be believed, they didn't arrive in Nauvoo until some time in February. Hardly "barely off the boat".
So please, before you attempt to lecture me on how I have chosen to do history, you may want to first clean your own house. And, if you are capable of getting so many simple points entierly wrong with what I have said in the here-and-now (see above), it doesn't bode well for your credibility in looking back more than a century and surmizing the verity of contradictory accounts.
Thanks, -Wade Englund-