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truth dancer wrote:Hi Jersey Girl,

Another thought that came to me some time ago relating to this topic is this: Regarding our beliefs and behaviors, I see this more as a spectrum, complete brainwashing on one end and total freedom on the other.

On one end of the spectrum a person would be completely indoctrinated, controlled, brainwashed with extreme use of fear, completely immersed in a culture, restricted from knowing information, praised for obedience, rewarded for conformity, etc. etc.

On the other end of the spectrum a person is free to chose, explore, question, doubt, wonder, challenge while facing no fear (in this life or the next) on their quest. There would be no need to conform to authority but praise for their unique journey.

I see all religions, cults, belief systems on this spectrum with most in the middle somewhere. The FLDS for example, on a scale of 1-10 (ten being the extreme of control), might be a nine while Buddhism might be a two. I would place Mormonism probably around a seven?

In other words, it is not all black and white but all sorts of shades of gray.


Exactly which is probably why perception and definitions on a complex concept as a "cult" varies. But as Chap pointed out perhaps not in these exact words but concepts can be distilled down to an essence which makes the word useful in conveying ideas. Put into a context that word/concept takes on a fuller meaning.
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harmony wrote: So you don't think those things are examples of good moral values? You left out things like staying chaste until marriage, giving service, time, talents and money to the building up of the Kingdom, taking care of the widows and orphans, helping out in times of disaster.

I suspect we have a different ideas of what "good moral values" are, marg. Just a suspicion. Nothing I can put my finger on.


Let's see

1) not drinking alcohol and caffeine..I don't think it has anything to do with moral values.

2) getting married and having kids..again nothing to do with moral values

3) not being homosexual..again nothing to do with moral values.

4) accepting callings..again nothing to do with moral values.

your list:

"staying chaste until marriage"...again nothing to do with moral value. In fact I think couples should definitely have sex and more than once to determine is they are sexually compatible.

"giving service, time, talents and money to the building up of the Kingdom", ...if the Kingdom is a fraud it's a waste of time isn't it?



"taking care of the widows and orphans"...Ok that's good, yes that shows good morals but what about the widows and orphans outside the system.

"helping out in times of disaster" ..that is good moral value except my impression of the Mormon church is that relative to the billions of dollars it takes in it gives out a very very small percentage in charity. It gives out less percentage wise than the corporate world which are not charities.

I'm part of a blues society. We raise money at christmas and the entire amount is donated to the local community service office for the poor. We don't need to worship, we aren't interested in promoting a particular in group/tribe. That's not to take away from the good a church organization may do, but there are many organizations which do good which have nothing to do with religion. The Mormon Church is a business, providing livlihood to church employees. When you go back historically to early and middle ages when there were not many jobs available it was good career to work for a church. Politically it was good for the ruling class to be aligned with the Roman Catholic Church in Europe. There is more motivation to establishing churches than concern for moral values of people or whether or not a god exists and needs to be worshipped.
I think the prime consideration of the Mormon church is money and power. And of that list above, most of them have nothing to do with indicating good moral values if followed.
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marg wrote:
harmony wrote: So you don't think those things are examples of good moral values? You left out things like staying chaste until marriage, giving service, time, talents and money to the building up of the Kingdom, taking care of the widows and orphans, helping out in times of disaster.

I suspect we have a different ideas of what "good moral values" are, marg. Just a suspicion. Nothing I can put my finger on.


Let's see

1) not drinking alcohol and caffeine..I don't think it has anything to do with moral values.

2) getting married and having kids..again nothing to do with moral values

3) not being homosexual..again nothing to do with moral values.

4) accepting callings..again nothing to do with moral values.

your list:

"staying chaste until marriage"...again nothing to do with moral value. In fact I think couples should definitely have sex and more than once to determine is they are sexually compatible.

"giving service, time, talents and money to the building up of the Kingdom", ...if the Kingdom is a fraud it's a waste of time isn't it?



"taking care of the widows and orphans"...Ok that's good, yes that shows good morals but what about the widows and orphans outside the system.

"helping out in times of disaster" ..that is good moral value except my impression of the Mormon church is that relative to the billions of dollars it takes in it gives out a very very small percentage in charity. It gives out less percentage wise than the corporate world which are not charities.

I'm part of a blues society. We raise money at christmas and the entire amount is donated to the local community service office for the poor. We don't need to worship, we aren't interested in promoting a particular in group/tribe. That's not to take away from the good a church organization may do, but there are many organizations which do good which have nothing to do with religion. The Mormon Church is a business, providing livlihood to church employees. When you go back historically to early and middle ages when there were not many jobs available it was good career to work for a church. Politically it was good for the ruling class to be aligned with the Roman Catholic Church in Europe. There is more motivation to establishing churches than concern for moral values of people or whether or not a god exists and needs to be worshipped.
I think the prime consideration of the Mormon church is money and power. And of that list above, most of them have nothing to do with indicating good moral values if followed.


Some are very fond of the phrase “good moral values.” What they generally mean is their values or those with which they have been indoctrinated. I have found that divorced and remarried people tend to be far more opposed to divorce than those never married or never divorced.
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It seems to me that this web page IDENTIFYING A CULT gives a good discussion on definition of cult in particular as it pertains to a religious organization.


No need. The dictionary itself shows that all religions are cults. For example, are there any religions that don't fit into the standard dictionary definitions below?

1. a particular system of religious worship, esp. with reference to its rites and ceremonies.
2. an instance of great veneration of a person, ideal, or thing, esp. as manifested by a body of admirers: the physical fitness cult.
3. the object of such devotion.
4. a group or sect bound together by veneration of the same thing, person, ideal, etc.
5. Sociology. a group having a sacred ideology and a set of rites centering around their sacred symbols.
Machina Sublime
Satan's Plan Deconstructed.
Your Best Resource On Joseph Smith's Polygamy.
Conservatism is the Gospel of Christ and the Plan of Salvation in Action.
The Degeneracy Of Progressivism.
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Most LDS who were garments are quite wiling and happy to do so.

Doesn't mean they want to or like wearing them.


My experience with believing LDS persons is that most are quite fine about wearing garments. In fact they view it as an honorable thing in connection with important covenants they have mad.

As noted on the other thread they view them as a reminder of something that is very important to them in their spiritual life and by daily putting them on their mind is called up to matters of faith and spirituality. Some may do it under protest and yes there is pressure for them to comply from mostly feelings of guilt if they don't comply. But most are quite fine with it.

I would challenge this. (smile)


I am not surprised you would. However your view is not that held by most,if not the majority of TBMs.


I think if garments were truly optional you would see very few women wear them. Perhaps older women and those who are more fundamentalist might continue, but over time garments would virtually disappear, (unless of course there was some sort of elitism associated with the continual wearing of them).


I have not done a survey but the women I know who I am close enough to to discuss this with have no issues that you seem to have.
One more thing, while garments may be comfortable for men, and I do know some women like them, for me (and numerous other women I know), they were extremely, totally, unbelievably uncomfortable and irritating.


Given that we have differing anatomies I will have to take your word for it. And you will have to take mine.
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1) not drinking alcohol and caffeine..I don't think it has anything to do with moral values



I agree accept if one drinks alcohol to excess and destroys their life and/or family. That is immoral.

2) getting married and having kids..again nothing to do with moral values


Certainly not the act of just marrying and having children. However, getting married and having children and then investing the time required to raise decent members of society is reflective of moral values.

3) not being homosexual..again nothing to do with moral values.


Depends on your point of view.

4) accepting callings..again nothing to do with moral values.



Serving and giving time to one's chosen faith system reflects good moral values. It is called contributing to society. It is valid form of public service and charity which in most peoples world reflects good morals.
your list:

"staying chaste until marriage"...again nothing to do with moral value. In fact I think couples should definitely have sex and more than once to determine is they are sexually compatible.


For most of this nations history sexual activity was considered immoral. Marg's view her is a recent redrawing of the line in the sand. She is wrong and in spite of our apparent lose society most view sexual promiscuity as immoral.
"giving service, time, talents and money to the building up of the Kingdom", ...if the Kingdom is a fraud it's a waste of time isn't it?


Your opinion of the LDS Church as a fraud is simply that. Not fact as much as you state it as such. All religions have flaws yet they offer valuable community service and benefits and those things are reflective of good morals.



"taking care of the widows and orphans"...Ok that's good, yes that shows good morals but what about the widows and orphans outside the system.


Does it matter if they are in or out of the system? It is still serving them.
"helping out in times of disaster" ..that is good moral value except my impression of the Mormon church is that relative to the billions of dollars it takes in it gives out a very very small percentage in charity. It gives out less percentage wise than the corporate world which are not charities.


Once again marg demonstrates her ignorance of things LDS. I will here not as I have many times on this board that you, in your statement above, make the same mistake as others by focusing on simply disaster and humanitarian aid. You ignore the program in the LDS Church called fast offering. It is the method the LDS Church uses to feed the poor, pay their rent, utilites and so on. I have conservatively estimated that the income and out flow on an annual basis for world wide welfare assistance through fast offering funds to be $500 million annually.



I'm part of a blues society. We raise money at christmas and the entire amount is donated to the local community service office for the poor. We don't need to worship, we aren't interested in promoting a particular in group/tribe.


Wonderful. LDS Fast offering funds by the way go 100% to the needy. There is 0 overhead for it.

That's not to take away from the good a church organization may do, but there are many organizations which do good which have nothing to do with religion.


Nobody makes that claim at all. That does not make what LDS people do fr charity through the LDS Church any less moral.

The Mormon Church is a business, providing livlihood to church employees.


The Mormon Church is a religous organization that provides religious activity to millions. Of course a large organization like the LDS Church in our modern world will employee people that run it. That does not make in less moral nor the moral things it does for society any less positive.
I think the prime consideration of the Mormon church is money and power.


Well then you are certainly wrong.

And of that list above, most of them have nothing to do with indicating good moral values if followed.


Actually as I have now demonstrated most of them do indicate good morals.

I am not one to argue that non believers in God are not moral people. But based on your post above Marg you seem to have an odd definition of what is and is not moral. At least that is what I think.
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Some are very fond of the phrase “good moral values.” What they generally mean is their values or those with which they have been indoctrinated.


And this is no less true for you or Marg. You have your own little paradigms of what is and is not moral and frankly I find Marg's at least as flawed as she seems to find those of LDS believers.
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Jason Bourne wrote:
Some are very fond of the phrase “good moral values.” What they generally mean is their values or those with which they have been indoctrinated.


And this is no less true for you or Marg. You have your own little paradigms of what is and is not moral and frankly I find Marg's at least as flawed as she seems to find those of LDS believers.


I wouldn’t use the term as a pejorative or perhaps at all. I'm not "fond" of the phrase.
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The use of “good moral values” is generally used by those who think that they and only they (and those who agree with them) know what that phrase means. They generally use the term as a criticism of others who have different perceptions of what is of “moral value.”
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Jason Bourne wrote:
1) not drinking alcohol and caffeine..I don't think it has anything to do with moral values



I agree accept if one drinks alcohol to excess and destroys their life and/or family. That is immoral.


That's not the teachings of the Church. Whatever one does to oneself is not immoral unless it affects others negatively. If one overeats to the point they are unhealthy, and that negatively impacts their family that too is immoral. But for Church members to think they are being moral because they don't drink at all, is nonsense.

2) getting married and having kids..again nothing to do with moral values


Certainly not the act of just marrying and having children. However, getting married and having children and then investing the time required to raise decent members of society is reflective of moral values.


The world has 6 billion people, China is having to limit families to one child..since when is having children a moral act?

3) not being homosexual..again nothing to do with moral values.


Depends on your point of view.


No it doesn't depend on point of view. What others do privately is no business of any one else's unless it can be shown to be detrimental to others.

4) accepting callings..again nothing to do with moral values.



Serving and giving time to one's chosen faith system reflects good moral values. It is called contributing to society. It is valid form of public service and charity which in most peoples world reflects good morals.


It's not necessarily contributing to society. It's contributing to perpetuation and growth of an organization. Do you consider Hell's angel members performing callings to be moral, or Mafia member callings to be moral? It depends on what those callings are and the purpose of the organization. Because an organization claims religous status does not mean that anything it teaches is true or necessarily good. A good part of religious teachings is a waste of resource of time. Look at the Book of Mormon all that time spent reading it, debating who wrote it etc...all on a fraudulent work..a fictious story passed off as sacred text and historical at that. [/quote]

your list:

"staying chaste until marriage"...again nothing to do with moral value. In fact I think couples should definitely have sex and more than once to determine is they are sexually compatible.


For most of this nations history sexual activity was considered immoral. Marg's view her is a recent redrawing of the line in the sand. She is wrong and in spite of our apparent lose society most view sexual promiscuity as immoral.


What you have to look at is who does it hurt. One of the reasons premarital sex was discouraged historically is before the birth control pill, there were not good birth control methods and women were dependent on men financially due to unequal jobs and pay available. Now a days the concern is sexually transmitted diseases but that's a concern for those who get married as well, in other words precautions, medical checks can be performed to control for that. I certainly do not think couples need to be married before having a sexual relationship. White House on earth is getting hurt if they do? Why do you wish to negative judge others who are causing you and others no harm?

"giving service, time, talents and money to the building up of the Kingdom", ...if the Kingdom is a fraud it's a waste of time isn't it?


Your opinion of the LDS Church as a fraud is simply that. Not fact as much as you state it as such. All religions have flaws yet they offer valuable community service and benefits and those things are reflective of good morals.


This is like the emperor has no clothes and people don't want to say anything. Jason it is so obvious the Book of Mormon is a fictional story using King James english to sound ancient that it doesn't even need to be debated. Of course it's a fraud, you have to be either heavily indoctrinated or pretty darn naïve to think otherwise.



"taking care of the widows and orphans"...Ok that's good, yes that shows good morals but what about the widows and orphans outside the system.


Does it matter if they are in or out of the system? It is still serving them.


Well if a religious organization is only concerned with its own then it's not really doing the service because of ethical reasons, the motivation is to help their own, which ultimately helps the organization. It's a good thing except the motivator is not truly about being moral.

"helping out in times of disaster" ..that is good moral value except my impression of the Mormon church is that relative to the billions of dollars it takes in it gives out a very very small percentage in charity. It gives out less percentage wise than the corporate world which are not charities.


Once again marg demonstrates her ignorance of things LDS. I will here not as I have many times on this board that you, in your statement above, make the same mistake as others by focusing on simply disaster and humanitarian aid. You ignore the program in the LDS Church called fast offering. It is the method the LDS Church uses to feed the poor, pay their rent, utilites and so on. I have conservatively estimated that the income and out flow on an annual basis for world wide welfare assistance through fast offering funds to be $500 million annually.


I see so you have personally estimated.

So what have you estimated is the total income they receive per year in tithing? What do they receive on the income of their investment assets per year? What do they receive as income on their businesses per year?
What is their total asset value? And then what percentage to they pay out per year in charity relative to their total yearly income and relative to their Total net worth?


I'm part of a blues society. We raise money at christmas and the entire amount is donated to the local community service office for the poor. We don't need to worship, we aren't interested in promoting a particular in group/tribe.


Wonderful. LDS Fast offering funds by the way go 100% to the needy. There is 0 overhead for it.


So this fast offering is given to fellow Mormons in need and is above and beyond what the church takes in in tithing? by the way, the funds we raise go directly to the charity, in fact we allow them to control the intake at the door and to take the money directly. But we don't specified that people must belong to any organization to receive the money. In other words we don't place a requirement on people that they must hold certain beliefs to qualify, nor does the community service program.

That's not to take away from the good a church organization may do, but there are many organizations which do good which have nothing to do with religion.


Nobody makes that claim at all. That does not make what LDS people do fr charity through the LDS Church any less moral.


It is to some extent less moral when there are requirments imposed upon recipients that they hold the same beliefs and the Church.

The Mormon Church is a business, providing livlihood to church employees.


The Mormon Church is a religous organization that provides religious activity to millions. Of course a large organization like the LDS Church in our modern world will employee people that run it. That does not make in less moral nor the moral things it does for society any less positive.


My point is that were it not for the financial gain enjoyed by religious organizations many wouldn't exist. The popes used to sell indulgences to gain money and the people with money would buy off their sins.

I think the prime consideration of the Mormon church is money and power.


Well then you are certainly wrong.


Why don't they release financial records?

And of that list above, most of them have nothing to do with indicating good moral values if followed.


Actually as I have now demonstrated most of them do indicate good morals.


No you not demonstrated any such thing, you've demonstrated a lack of understanding of what constitutes good ethics. For example why on earth should having children when the world is being depleted of resources, being polluted..constitute having good morals?

I am not one to argue that non believers in God are not moral people. But based on your post above Marg you seem to have an odd definition of what is and is not moral. At least that is what I think.


I see so you negatively judged people who are homosexual, those who have premarital sex, those who choose to not have kids, those who drink alcohol, as having poor morals. And then you positively judge those who promote and perpetuate a fraudulent organization started up by a promiscuous con man, as having good morals.
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