liz3564 wrote:
Ray publicly posted the PM you sent to him. Shades and I were both online at the same time. I read it before Shades deleted it. Let me make clear that I did NOT go into Ray's PM's, or yours, and read them. I do not HAVE that ability..and even if I did, that is something I would NEVER do. That was actually done to me when I was a poster at FAIR/MAD. I know how it feels to have that happen.
My comments referred to Ray's public posting of what you sent to him...and I stand by the fact that, if it was, in fact, true, it is horrible, and as a parent, I am sickened by it, and don't understand how someone could say something like that to another human being.
Liz, thanks for trying to learn both sides of the story before posting those terrible things about me on the "The Cafeteria". Heaven forbid that you would want to learn both sides before publicly maligning me.
Just so I'm clear, if you read a PM prior to deleting it, then you obviously feel that posting anything about that PM on "The Cafeteria" is okay? If not, please tell me what I am missing.
Anyone who is posting PMs should be VERY concerned that you are a Moderator, Liz. Any PM that you are made aware of is now fair game for you to post anywhere you see fit.
I'm not that disturbed that you would misrepresent one side of the story (it's clear that you hate me from the things you posted about me), what is disturbing to me is that you are using information from PMs you have learned as a Moderator and posting such on other forums.
Please tell me why you feel your actions were appropriate. I am at a complete loss after reading your "explanation".