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Too bad you couldn't post the photo I know you were dying to...Angela Davis sitting in a pit of flames, perhaps?



Loran:

Sicne Angela Davis is a totalitarian leftist, a Stalinist, and a racist, this will most likely be her ultimate end unless sincere and uncompromising repentance is forthcoming.

As for the rest, I now realize that there is really no reason to trade jibes with you since the hate and bigorty that apparantly animates much of your outlook on life makes even facetious and only half derious sarcastic wit an exercise in self flagellatin. May you, Angela, and the Panthers live happily ever after.


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Who Knows wrote:
wenglund wrote:
Who Knows wrote:
Okay. It would help ME if I were given more specific details and reasons behind that assesment.


Well, lets look at the definition:
a stupid, incompetent, or detestable person


Stupid for believing in the fraud that is the church.
Incompetent for your lameass interpretations/applications of cognitive distortion.
Detestable for your condescending/holier than thou approach on this board.

Based on my interactions with you, you are the definition of asshole. So, what do you think?


I think for ME to be convinced that that is what I really am, I would need more than accusations. I would rationally need to have specific and reasonable examples presented to ME as well as reasonably demonstrated that the examples of ME actually fit the stated definition.

I think I can, strictly for the sake of argument, and by way of modeling, continue to meet this challenge of talking just about me for the remainder of this thread, and in terms of the specified criticism of me. I do so because I am not averse to honestly and open-mindedly considering personal criticism of me. I think I am benefited when I listen and thoughtfully consider feedback. I often wonder to myself if I am alone here in that way of thinking?

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


I gave you examples. You just didn't like them. Shocker.

Ok, so you're not convinced that you're an asshole. What a surprise.

Hey, I'm not convinced of your interpretations/applications of cognitive distortion. What a surprise.

It's just too bad that you weren't able to challenge my assertion, and hopefully change my mind. I guess we'll leave it at that then. Oh well.


I am comfortable leaving it at that, secure in the knowledge that I, at least, was able to meet the challenge of discussing just ME in this thread (at least since the point at which the challenge was extended in this thread).

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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wenglund wrote:I am comfortable leaving it at that, secure in the knowledge that I, at least, was able to meet the challenge of discussing just ME in this thread (at least since the point at which the challenge was extended in this thread).


Yes you did meet the challenge. Bravo.

But what was accomplished? I still think you're an asshole, while you think you're not. Big deal.

For you to defend yourself properly, and -hopefully- change my mind, you would have needed to have brought me into the thread.
WK: "Joseph Smith asserted that the Book of Mormon peoples were the original inhabitants of the americas"
Will Schryver: "No, he didn’t." 3/19/08
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Who Knows wrote:
wenglund wrote:I am comfortable leaving it at that, secure in the knowledge that I, at least, was able to meet the challenge of discussing just ME in this thread (at least since the point at which the challenge was extended in this thread).


Yes you did meet the challenge. Bravo.

But what was accomplished? I still think you're an asshole, while you think you're not. Big deal.

For you to defend yourself properly, and -hopefully- change my mind, you would have needed to have brought me into the thread.


MY answer to the question directed to ME (i.e. "what was accomplished") is, I, alone, thus far seem to have demonstrated the ability to discuss MYSELF and issues specific about MYSELF. I alone have seen the benefit of receiving personal feedback and criticism and have demonstrated the ability and willingness to receive personal feedback and criticism. I may have been able to demonstrate to a greater degree and in greater depth and in various ways, were I not bound by the limiting parameters of the challenge. But, I am satisfied with what I was able to accomplish, even if I am the only one who is capable of seeing and acknowledging the accomplishments. ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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wenglund wrote:MY answer to the question directed to ME (i.e. "what was accomplished") is, I, alone, thus far seem to have demonstrated the ability to discuss MYSELF and issues specific about MYSELF. I alone have seen the benefit of receiving personal feedback and criticism and have demonstrated the ability and willingness to receive personal feedback and criticism. I may have been able to demonstrate to a greater degree and in greater depth and in various ways, were I not bound by the limiting parameters of the challenge. But, I am satisfied with what I was able to accomplish, even if I am the only one who is capable of seeing and acknowledging the accomplishments. ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


And what were the benefits that you saw?

And you set up the parameters. I knew from the outset that they were unfair, and that is what I was trying to demonstrate.
WK: "Joseph Smith asserted that the Book of Mormon peoples were the original inhabitants of the americas"
Will Schryver: "No, he didn’t." 3/19/08
Still waiting for Will to back this up...
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Post by _Sam Harris »

Coggins7 wrote:
Too bad you couldn't post the photo I know you were dying to...Angela Davis sitting in a pit of flames, perhaps?



Loran:

Sicne Angela Davis is a totalitarian leftist, a Stalinist, and a racist, this will most likely be her ultimate end unless sincere and uncompromising repentance is forthcoming.

As for the rest, I now realize that there is really no reason to trade jibes with you since the hate and bigorty that apparantly animates much of your outlook on life makes even facetious and only half derious sarcastic wit an exercise in self flagellatin. May you, Angela, and the Panthers live happily ever after.


Loran


You still don't get it. I am none of the above, and my life doesn't reflect any of your observations. I really find it hard to believe you are a middle-aged man. You sound like a pre-pubescent missionary hopeful who has memorized the Journal of Discourses. But I am used to TBMs making me out to be the problem because they can't understand how sick it is to purport a book that claims being "pure, white, and delightsome" to be indicative of God's favor.

Loran, three nations meet within me. I am not ashamed of any of them. But I also don't believe that God looks at skin color. I wasn't raised to think that people's skin color were determined by what they did before they came to earth. But carry on. I know that reality with regards to this is hard for you. And your apology thread was so very noble. "I'm so sorry for fighting with those I percieve to be idiots, I'll just walk around them groveling on the ground this new year." How sublimely arrogant. You and Wade take the cake for pompous aseninity.

Attitudes like the one you so proudly display, are exactly why I left the church. I'm not going to wear the mantle of racist all my life, because I have a problem with being the seed of Cain, or because I would like to sing Gospel music in church, which even your prophet thinks takes away from the spirit of the meeting. Let it be done in a fireside, yeah. I'm not going to let someone attack me because I have a problem with the church's perception of me. I'm not going to be the problem, and a Stalinist, AND a racist because I don't buy your precious leaders' explanations for the priesthood ban. Irony doesn't even begin to describe you, Loran. Seriously. And you speak of hell for other people? Feeling the need to be angry with folks all the time for not thinking like you is a far more terrible hell, I would think. I personally do not hate you, and even though your constant "you're a racist" javelins may hurt, I know the truth. You don't anger me. You just don't get it, you're causing much of the problems you have here. And to go and make up some soapbox apology, blaming your peevish behavior on other people on this board (they made me do it) is so juvenile.

I don't often say this, but honey, you need Jesus.
Each one has to find his peace from within. And peace to be real must be unaffected by outside circumstances. -Ghandi
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Post by _Coggins7 »

You still don't get it. I am none of the above, and my life doesn't reflect any of your observations.


In which case you need to say something, in some post, at some point, that doesn't reflect attitudes and beliefs that would lead one to suspect something fairly eqivalent to my observations. As soon as you do, I'll stop making them.


I really find it hard to believe you are a middle-aged man. You sound like a pre-pubescent missionary hopeful who has memorized the Journal of Discourses.


Last time I checked, the church doesn't send pre-pubescents out on missions. And anyone who can memorize the Jorunal of Discourses is headed for the Guiness Book.


But I am used to TBMs making me out to be the problem because they can't understand how sick it is to purport a book that claims being "pure, white, and delightsome" to be indicative of God's favor.


Thanks again for confirming, in the same breath as you deny it, your racialism and fixation on skin color and ethnicity when the overwhelming majority of Mormons and white people in general in this society have moved well beyond it. Those references are well known to have both physical and spiritual connotations, and are easily explained without invoking racism. Numerous quotations of a similar type can be taken from the Bible and used to impugn it just as easily as you attempt to do with the Book of Mormon (the early attitudes of the Apostles to taking the gospel to the Gentiles, for example, or the New Testament's neutral position on slavery, for another. Or, of course, the Old Testament's support of Plural Marriage among some very prominent "GAs" of the age).

Loran, three nations meet within me. I am not ashamed of any of them.


Good, why should you be?


But I also don't believe that God looks at skin color. I wasn't raised to think that people's skin color were determined by what they did before they came to earth. But carry on. I know that reality with regards to this is hard for you. And your apology thread was so very noble. "I'm so sorry for fighting with those I percieve to be idiots, I'll just walk around them groveling on the ground this new year." How sublimely arrogant. You and Wade take the cake for pompous aseninity.


The above is a prime example of just why I apologized and why the apology was necessary. It is in my very nature to respond to something like this in one of two ways. One is with an eluquent denunciation in clear and unambiguous terms; a blistering ad hominem retort. The other is with a hopefully witty and sarcastic parody in verse or song lyrics. After Jason made a statement that i wasn't' defending the church in a manner in which the leaders of church would appreciate, i realized he was right and determined to alter my coures on that wise. I didn't say anything in that post about anyone being an idiot. I mentioned people with whom civil, rational debate was impossible. I intend to keep to that alteration of course in the future.


Attitudes like the one you so proudly display, are exactly why I left the church. I'm not going to wear the mantle of racist all my life, because I have a problem with being the seed of Cain, or because I would like to sing Gospel music in church, which even your prophet thinks takes away from the spirit of the meeting.


The seed of Cain idea was again, never official doctine. It had doctrinal standing yes, in an unofficial way as an explanatin, but the correction of course the Church has done over the last 30 years (keep in mind that David Mckay was willing to restore the Priesthood to blacks in the sixties, but could not until the Lord directed him, or anothe Prophet, to do so) seemingly has not fazed you. The concept of the Prieshood ban in traditinal church teaching had little to do with "race" per se, and much more to do with lineage, which is a well established concept in the gospel and biblically, as to the blessings and experience various peoples will undergo during a phase or period of time. This is the case with Caucasians, Jews, and other peoples based upon certain variables, including the relation of experiences and personal preexistent attributes to mortal life and our particular circumstances in it, which are going to include time and place of birth as well as ethinic background. If you just don't accept the idea of preexistece on metaphysical grounds, then you need not concern yourself with this. If you do, then I frankly don't see any way out of the probability that the major features of our lives, especially those we cannot change, like ethicity, body shape and size, cultural background, and the age in which we were born, do not have a a unique connection to our experiences in our first estate, just as our behavior and experiences here will condition or final estate in the sphere of existence we will occupy after this life.

I love a number of old Negro spirituals, I find them deeply poweful emotionally and of value to the church. I, however, share the GA's concern about much of the music of charismatic Protestantism, both black and white, that is loud, boiisterous, and dustructive of the quietude and reverence we understand from the revalations is the major feature of the environment the Lord want's us to have in our meetings. If you cannot stand back and be even slightly critical or analytical about the cultural baggage of your own ethinic background, preferring ethnic and racial solidarity to a search for truth, even if it means abandoning some of the traditions of your fathers, then what choice do you have but endless divisive bickering with those who do not see the same value in everything you do? What choice do you have but to see every criticism, or contextual rejection of certain aspects of your ethnic background as "racism"?


Let it be done in a fireside, yeah. I'm not going to let someone attack me because I have a problem with the church's perception of me. I'm not going to be the problem, and a Stalinist, AND a racist because I don't buy your precious leaders' explanations for the priesthood ban. Irony doesn't even begin to describe you, Loran.


I did not say your were a Stalinist. I said that about Angela Davis. As to racism, I think you have a personal and visceral fixation on it, yes. Further, I don't think you have the slightest idea what the "church's perceptions of "people like you" is. Hint: its no different than the church's perceptons of me.


Seriously. And you speak of hell for other people? Feeling the need to be angry with folks all the time for not thinking like you is a far more terrible hell,


I never get angry at anybody for not thinking the way I do. My agner arises because of the mendacity and disintegrity of much of the argumentation and slander of the church and its leaders that is part and parcel of the anti-Mormon and active exmo world.


I would think. I personally do not hate you, and even though your constant "you're a racist" javelins may hurt, I know the truth. You don't anger me. You just don't get it, you're causing much of the problems you have here. And to go and make up some soapbox apology, blaming your peevish behavior on other people on this board (they made me do it) is so juvenile.


If you had actually read that post, you would have seen that I put the blame for the behavior entirely on myself. I gave myself no excuse for the attacking of others and vowed to simply stay awary from people who make me feel like doing that and concentrate my discussions with civil and intellectually honest opponents.

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Who Knows wrote:
wenglund wrote:MY answer to the question directed to ME (i.e. "what was accomplished") is, I, alone, thus far seem to have demonstrated the ability to discuss MYSELF and issues specific about MYSELF. I alone have seen the benefit of receiving personal feedback and criticism and have demonstrated the ability and willingness to receive personal feedback and criticism. I may have been able to demonstrate to a greater degree and in greater depth and in various ways, were I not bound by the limiting parameters of the challenge. But, I am satisfied with what I was able to accomplish, even if I am the only one who is capable of seeing and acknowledging the accomplishments. ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


And what were the benefits that you saw?


I believe I have already enumerated them--at least those that I was able to given the admittedly narrow parameters of the challenge.

And you set up the parameters.


Indeed I did.

I knew from the outset that they were unfair, and that is what I was trying to demonstrate.


Whether unfair or not (I don't see it so much as unfair as I see it as a more difficult challenge), I, alone thus far, have been able to meet the challenge. This suggest to me that if I am able to meet the more difficult challenge of mentioning only myself, then it would be reasonable to conclude that I would be able to meet the less difficult challenge of keeping the discussion focused on myself--a less difficult challenge that I suspect I alone may be able to meet here as well. ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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wenglund wrote:Whether unfair or not (I don't see it so much as unfair as I see it as a more difficult challenge), I, alone thus far, have been able to meet the challenge. This suggest to me that if I am able to meet the more difficult challenge of mentioning only myself, then it would be reasonable to conclude that I would be able to meet the less difficult challenge of keeping the discussion focused on myself--a less difficult challenge that I suspect I alone may be able to meet here as well. ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Who cares if you can 'meet the challenge'? So what? I can meet the challenge. But what would the purpose be? It's like saying, let's have a boxing match, but i'll be blindfolded.

Anyone can meet the challenge - but would see little point in doing so.
WK: "Joseph Smith asserted that the Book of Mormon peoples were the original inhabitants of the americas"
Will Schryver: "No, he didn’t." 3/19/08
Still waiting for Will to back this up...
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Who Knows wrote:
wenglund wrote:Whether unfair or not (I don't see it so much as unfair as I see it as a more difficult challenge), I, alone thus far, have been able to meet the challenge. This suggest to me that if I am able to meet the more difficult challenge of mentioning only myself, then it would be reasonable to conclude that I would be able to meet the less difficult challenge of keeping the discussion focused on myself--a less difficult challenge that I suspect I alone may be able to meet here as well. ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Who cares if you can 'meet the challenge'? So what? I can meet the challenge. But what would the purpose be? It's like saying, let's have a boxing match, but i'll be blindfolded.

Anyone can meet the challenge - but would see little point in doing so.


I care that I met the challenge, and I do so for the purposes I previously enumerated. I have yet to see any evidence to suggest in any way that I am wrong about me alone being able to meet either the more difficult challenge (as I continue to do) or the less difficult challenge. As such, I think my, alone, having accepted and met the challenge bears out the very important point that I, alone, here, may be up to either challenge. That says much about me, alone, being open to personal criticism and feedback, and me alone benefiting from the personal growth and development that may be derived therefrom.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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