Is THIS the thread you were thinking of when you wrote that? If so, here is my reply to you for I feel it best fits this particular thread.
You know what would be refreshing, solo? If you would read my posts for what they say instead of trying to read my mind and ask a simple question or two.
You're somewhat right, you did not mention any anger issue.
No. I've never been LDS. If you think my having never been LDS negates my ability to read/observe what constitutes a cross section of a sub-culture of society, and to offer an objective opinion or pose a question to a primarily LDS related board after many several years of also being friends with LDS and encountering them on boards like this for 10 years, I can't help you.
You're right, you couldn't help me, even if you met me then, when I was having this monumental daily struggles with my ex wife. Being a brilliant woman much smarter than I ever will be, It took me years to free her from the grasp of CULT ( I am not ashamed to use the epithet).
Sorry but encountering them on these boards is not equal to live that daily horror.
Read your original post again, we (at least me) don't engage this board because of any obligation, I'll tell you what; it became part of my culture, even though it pisses the hell out of my wife. I do this of my free time, nobody pushes me to be here.
I'll give you a hint though, I am attracted to understand, comprehend, how seemingly smart people fall for this fallacy, when it is so obvious to figure out.