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_truth dancer
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Hi Bob,

You're kidding right? Right?

You can't seriously believe your list is in any possible way even remotely close to attacking or stalking you can you?

I'm not sure if you are trying to be funny, or if you seriously think your list demonstrates some sort of nefarious behavior on Beastie's part?

You have been asked, what a hundred times to give some examples of the whole "stalking" thing, and you come up with nothing.

Again, who are you trying to convince by repeating this nonsense over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over.......?

Do you not understand the little "England" remark was about YOU?

Nothing close to disclosing information about your wife unless she actually does think of England... :confused:
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Gadianton Plumber wrote:OK, is there anything in that pathetic list of your that irreversibley condemns her to the Oort Cloud of Pahoran? How is "think of England" an assault on your wife or children? It sounds like an insult to you. It sounds like she was calling you ugly. You know, "you so ugly yo woman gotta think of England."

You don't know much, do you?

Beastie's beastly remark was, "I guess that means your wife laid back and thought of England seven times." The expression "lie back and think of England" dates to World War II and refers to prostitutes putting out for soldiers and sailors.

As such, it is an inexpressibly vile thing to say to someone.

But pretty much par for the course for Beastie.

Gadianton Plumber wrote:Yeah, threats. I am threatening assault apparently.

Yes, that's what "watch your step" actually means, bucko. If it's not a threat, then it conveys nothing at all.

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Beastie argued that the context of the discussion more or less required that Gino Manna must be the sole individual in view, because he was an ex-Mormon while his brother Joseph was not.


The entire topic of the thread was whether or not apostates who claim that the church broke up their marriage are possibly telling the truth. Your position was that they would be lying, and this was one example you shared to bolster your claim. The topic of the thread was not some generic “the lies anti-mormons tell”. Your insistence that Gino’s brother was the sole focus of your comments does not correlate with the entire topic, nor does it correlate with your statements that Gino’s schizophrenia was irrelevant in regards to the assertion you were making.

I do think that today you believe you weren’t talking about Gino, and that this somehow absolves you of being guilty of the same exploitation of which you accused Dr. W. Memory is a fallible thing, and our own personal memories tend to accommodate whatever our current needs may be. Your current need is for my charge of hypocrisy to be false.

I think that the context of the thread is sufficient for folks to make their own judgments.

Besides, I don’t understand why you believe that focusing on Gino’s never-been-mormon brother (in a topic discussing apostates in particular) absolve you from the charge of being willing to exploit a tragedy caused by mental illness in order to make a polemic point. Even if the brother were your focus, you were still exploiting a tragedy caused by mental illness to make a polemic point – which is exactly what you accused Dr. W of doing.

by the way, bringing up this thread one time in the past five and a half years since it occurred does not constitute “stalking”. Unless, of course, you agree with bob in which making a joke about his wife laying back and thinking of England also constitutes “stalking”.

Thank goodness neither of lived during the time of the pioneers. If you feel stalked and threatened by things like this, you wouldn’t have survived one minute back then.


Crocket:

Beastie: I have been careful in the past to treat you with a reasonable modicum of respect. But you have stalked me. I guess I define stalking as intentional personal attacks using personal off-line family information to gain a tactical advantage -- to embarrass family members or children to gain an advantage.


You have not treated me with any respect. You’ve called me a sociopath and a stalker. I did not use personal information to embarrass family members or children to gain an advantage. No one in their right mind would interpret my joke as meant to embarrass your wife or children. You ought to be embarrassed yourself by fixating on this silly joke I made and pretending it’s the equivalent of stalking. But given how many times you’ve made this charge, clearly you’re not. It’s bizarre behavior for someone who is a lawyer and should know better.
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Pahoran99 wrote:
Gadianton Plumber wrote:OK, is there anything in that pathetic list of your that irreversibley condemns her to the Oort Cloud of Pahoran? How is "think of England" an assault on your wife or children? It sounds like an insult to you. It sounds like she was calling you ugly. You know, "you so ugly yo woman gotta think of England."

You don't know much, do you?

Beastie's beastly remark was, "I guess that means your wife laid back and thought of England seven times." The expression "lie back and think of England" dates to World War II and refers to prostitutes putting out for soldiers and sailors.

As such, it is an inexpressibly vile thing to say to someone.

But pretty much par for the course for Beastie.

Gadianton Plumber wrote:Yeah, threats. I am threatening assault apparently.

Yes, that's what "watch your step" actually means, bucko. If it's not a threat, then it conveys nothing at all.

Regards,
Pahoran

You don't have the slightest idea where the phrase comes from. Think Queen Victoria. Even if you were right, which you aren't, that's quite a stretch to say it's an attack on his wife. It's a threat all right, a threat of further polemics.

Watch your step, bucko. Go back to your toilet.
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Actually, "lie back and think about England" is normally attributed to Queen Victoria, as advice for virginal women contemplating the burden of marriage.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lie_back_a ... of_England

It is quite a spectacle to see you two try to pretend that making one pathetic little joke in a moment of anger is an example of vile, horrific behavior.

It's even more of a spectacle given that crocket thinks nothing of calling me a "sociopath", and Pahoran calls exmormons liars with almost every other breath.
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I don't recall calling you a sociopath. I may have commented that the inability to tell right from wrong is sociopathic behavior.

In any event, I don't claim perfection for myself. Sometimes I can be needling and difficult.

Your "joke" was not meant as a joke at the time, and it was a joke at my family's expense, exposing personal information about my family to boot.

Again, I assert, you are not qualified to lecture anybody about civil discourse.
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I will once again apologize. I literally had no idea that, in real life, your wife had to lie back and think of England in order to conceive your children. Had I known this, I would never have made a joke about it. I'm sure it's a painful situation for you.

I'm not lecturing anyone regarding civil behavior. I'm accusing Pahoran of being a hypocrite for engaging in the same behavior for which he condemned Dr. W.

I don't recall calling you a sociopath. I may have commented that the inability to tell right from wrong is sociopathic behavior.


HUGE difference. :confused:

It's funny. If I recall correctly, the last time you brought this up you asserted that all would be well if I would only apologize. I pointed out to you that I apologized on the very same thread. But yet, here you are, still calling me a stalker.



Are you qualified to lecture me about civil behavior?


crocket calls me a sociopath in this direct response to me:

Why don't you go to your friends, people of responsibility and intergrity, and ask them (without referring to the internet) if you think it is honorable to post out on a telephone pole in front of somebody's house a flyer hurling vulgarties and defamations, anonymously, at the inhabitants?

Or, buying airtime on TV anonymously to make defamatory statements, and use vulgarities, in reference to the local Mormon stake president? Local rabbi?

For instance, we have four big catholic churches in my town. Would it be honorable for me to tack onto the front door of one of those churches in the early morning hours: "Father Flaherty here supports and endorses pedophiles."

Your honorable friends would say that this is sociopathic conduct. This is no different than what you do. And, I mean you.


viewtopic.php?f=1&t=3143&st=0&sk=t&sd=a&hilit=sociopath&start=84

Date: September 18, 2007

Here's the thread in which I made the joke about lying back and thinking of England - the same thread on which I apologize for the joke.

viewtopic.php?f=1&t=3484&start=0&st=0&sk=t&sd=a&hilit=england

date: October 21, 2007

On this board, bob mainly posts about how we're cowards for posting anonymously, or even sociopaths. He insulted Scratch by repeatedly referring to him as a female.

Again, I ask you Bob: are you qualified to lecture about civil behavior?
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Your "joke" was not meant as a joke at the time, and it was a joke at my family's expense, exposing personal information about my family to boot.


Who would have thought Beastie was disclosing personal information with this silly little joke? :surprised:

If you had just not told us it was true no one would be the wiser.

:cool:

Listen Bob, I know Beastie and I can promise you she had no idea what your wife was thinking. Do you think she talks to your wife? Or could read her mind? She was joking about YOU, again having no idea she was disclosing personal information regarding your wife's thoughts.

I'm thinking it is time for you to let this one go. You are actually the one disclosing personal information about your wife, not Beastie.

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This thread is getting ugly. I would recommend that all parties just drop the issue going on between Bob and Beastie.

Bob, the saints are commanded to forgive all men and women (D&C 64:9-11). Beastie has even apologized it seems. Perhaps letting this go would be best.
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beastie wrote:
Beastie argued that the context of the discussion more or less required that Gino Manna must be the sole individual in view, because he was an ex-Mormon while his brother Joseph was not.

The entire topic of the thread was whether or not apostates who claim that the church broke up their marriage are possibly telling the truth.

This is true. Hence what I wrote:

Re-reading that discussion, it is clear that my brief remarks tended to not preserve the distinction between apostates and anti-Mormons in general. Since these are frequently overlapping sets, I have not always been as careful as I might have been about that.

This of course means that, since the discussion was mostly focused upon apostates rather than anti-Mormons in general, the Manna case was not the best possible example of the phenomenon I was describing.

On MA&DB, when DrW made a similar (but more limited and grudging) concession regarding his use of what he called the "Christine Jonson" case, Beastie showered him with kudos. Given her fair-mindedness and even-handedness, I now await a similar shower of kudos coming my way.

So where's all that kudos, Beastie?

beastie wrote:Your position was that they would be lying, and this was one example you shared to bolster your claim. The topic of the thread was not some generic “the lies anti-mormons tell”. Your insistence that Gino’s brother was the sole focus of your comments does not correlate with the entire topic, nor does it correlate with your statements that Gino’s schizophrenia was irrelevant in regards to the assertion you were making.

But it is supported by details of the discussion which you provided.

beastie wrote:I do think that today you believe you weren’t talking about Gino, and that this somehow absolves you of being guilty of the same exploitation of which you accused Dr. W. Memory is a fallible thing, and our own personal memories tend to accommodate whatever our current needs may be. Your current need is for my charge of hypocrisy to be false.

Which it is. But in fact the "hypcocrisy" charge -- coming from you, of all people -- is distinct from the dishonesty charge. You know, where you accused me of "contradicting" what was previously said; which accusation has been demonstrated to be false. And where you accused me of "rewriting history;" an accusation which is unavailable on the evidence.

beastie wrote:I think that the context of the thread is sufficient for folks to make their own judgments.

And I think you are counting on them overlooking the details of what was actually said.

Such as when I clearly and unmistakably conceded your point that Joseph Manna was the source of the anti-Mormon version of events.

That's not about the fallibility of memory, because I was relying upon the direct quotations supplied by you.

As, I am certain, you are sufficiently intelligent to grasp.

beastie wrote:Besides, I don’t understand why you believe that focusing on Gino’s never-been-mormon brother (in a topic discussing apostates in particular) absolve you from the charge of being willing to exploit a tragedy caused by mental illness in order to make a polemic point. Even if the brother were your focus, you were still exploiting a tragedy caused by mental illness to make a polemic point – which is exactly what you accused Dr. W of doing.

Please note:

(1) DrW's argument relied heavily upon an event that would not have happened without the mental illness of the main participant. My argument -- that apostates (and by fuzzy extension, anti-Mormons) falsely blame the Church for events where the real cause lies elsewhere, and usually closer to home -- did not rely upon any mental illness.

See if (just this once) you can actually follow the argument, Beastie.

Gino Manna killed his family because he was mentally ill. He did not, as was alleged, kill them because "the Mormons brainwashed him." Therefore, the fact that he was mentally ill is not directly relevant to the argument that I was making, because I was not talking about the event--I was talking about the false story that was told about the event.

The two things are not the same.

2) The allegation that "Christine Jonson" killed her children as a "perfectly logical" application of a reasonable interpretation of LDS doctrine lies at the heart of DrW's argument. If you don't believe me, check out his blog at http://www.postmormon.org/exp_e/index.php/pomopedia/Magical_Thinking_and_Why_Facts_Matter/

By contrast, the Manna case was just one of several cases I cited; my argument would have been just as good (perhaps better) without it.

beastie wrote:by the way, bringing up this thread one time in the past five and a half years since it occurred does not constitute “stalking”. Unless, of course, you agree with bob in which making a joke about his wife laying back and thinking of England also constitutes “stalking”.

That was not a "joke," except in some particularly foul-minded anti-Mormon locker room. It was an inexpressibly vile and filthy thing to say.

It also demonstrates what passes for "class" around here.

Regards,
Pahoran
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