harmony wrote:Pathetic Guy wasn't a member of this board at the time of the recent debacle. So who would you say should have been banned?
Pathetic guy should have been considered unwelcome as soon as he arrived. It is called self-protection. It is like having a Molotov cocktail thrown at your house from the street and then inviting the person to sit on the couch to chat when he walks through your front door. Obviously, we do not have any policies or practices in place that would have addressed the problem this way, so I am not saying that he should have been banned as soon as he arrived, but I would certainly be in favor of that in the future.
As I said, I view this as a practical measure for the protection of the board.
harmony wrote:Neither am I. Right now, though, without a huge overhaul of the rules and/or getting a new host, it's the quickest route to no further shut downs. The problem is, as I see it, isn't the pictures... the problem is that now we exist with a cloud hovering over us, which very likely will muzzle candid and open discussions.
Yes. I understand why this was done in the short term. But Stak and I were talking about long term policy, since the idea was floated that the ability to link to images should be deactivated permanently.
Could you expand on the idea of a cloud hanging over us? I don't want to address that until I know we're on the same page there.
harmony wrote:Don't act like you were the lone target of my comments.
Oh really? Try slowing down and choosing your words more carefully, then. You quote me and then you write:
harmony wrote:Well, you just made the point that 15,000 posts were full of useless words. Thanks. It's nice to know words are so undervalued here.
harmony wrote:Stak said we were going to bleed to death if we didn't have pictures; you agreed with him. I pointed out that some of us never use pictures, yet have contributed thousands of posts, some of which may have actually been worthwhile. I was snarky; you chose to get snippy. Own it; it is what it is.
Own what? Your misreading? No, thanks. Look at this:
Kishkumen wrote:I tend to agree with Stak about turning off the ability to link to images.
Since I know my meaning better than you do, I will translate. When I say "tend to agree," I am not saying that I agree 100%. I am saying I am in agreement to the extent and in the ways that I stipulate. Hypothetically, this is what my post would look like if I agreed with Stak 100% in the way that you seem to have read him:
Hypothetical Kish wrote:Man, yeah, we're dead in the water if we can't link images. Stak is 100% right. Turn that function back on immediately.
See the difference?
harmony wrote:And I never called you names. Even when you deserve it.
LOL. Wow, you're so generous. Even when I deserved it? Well, at least I now know that I deserved it more than once, and yet in your magnanimity, you refrained from calling me names. Ha!
OK, I am really sorry for calling you the name I would have called my brother for poking at me. I know how devastating that is.
harmony wrote:So should I be upset that you were laughing at me?
I'm not helping you there. I think ideally the wise person is not ruffled by any barbs. You figure it out.
harmony wrote:Venom? Kish, does this really qualifies as venom in your world? Are you somehow exempt from ever taking flak about something you say? Gee... I'm so sorry. I'll try to perfect my egg-shell walking.
OK, kitty hissing. Yeah, that's it.
harmony wrote:Where's the constructive discussion? Oh yeah... no family pictures.
Yeah, it's called, "let's consider more limited measures instead of running around like the sky is falling and suggesting we turn off image linking permanently." I would call a measured suggestion in lieu of panic very constructive.
harmony wrote:It may not make add to my popularity here to point this out, but the pathetic guy shut down this board.
I see you lived through it, although you are obviously shaken. As much as I have enjoyed being here, and hope to enjoy it more, I can't really get worked up to the degree I sense you being. Hey, but maybe I am wrong.
"Petition wasn’t meant to start a witch hunt as I’ve said 6000 times." ~ Hanna Seariac, LDS apologist