I read it real slow the first time, and the way you phrased it here implies explicit identity of agreement with their views.
I thought you were done talking with me because somehow I am now beneath you and not worth your time.
They tire of the oft repeated message of wife and mother being their main job and the culture that paints those who differ as apostate. They would love to have more opportunities to lead.
And again the denigration and trivialization of the role of wife, mother, and "homemaker" and the entire argument flowing from the assumption that church callings, spiritual leadership, and the divine calling of both father and mother (and governance within the Church) are about competing power relations between men and woman and official ecclesiastic status within the Church.
Yes this is what they tell me I sure I think they have a point. That does not mean I think mother, homemaker and so on are not important and critical. A career and other goals do not have to be mutually exclusive to these things Droopy. I know that is tough to comprehend when you have monolithic thinking.
I am starting to agree with most here that you are incapable of serious discussion. Anytime someone disagrees with you you fly of into your paragraph length sentences that end up meaning nothing other than some far right uber conservative rant.
I rest my case. You are too far gone, and life is far too short.
This is rich coming from you. Yes life is far to short. And if someone was going to save me (as if I really need saving) it certainly would not be an arrogant hard liner like you. I have great disdain for the type of world and even church you portray. I feel sorry for you and the narrow mindedness you display.
I am starting to perhaps agree with Kevin Graham about your intellect and you ability to comprehend. I never did anything of the sorts.
Yes, you have. Its called "sentences" and "paragraphs." The fact that you are so unaware of the philosophical/logical implications of what you write and the impressions you create through the language you use is utterly astounding.
Really Droopy all I am for is choices without a culture that condemns and marginalizes those who want different paths. The Church tries to portray it is this way in their Mormon Ads. But in reality it preaches something very different and not one that is accepting of persons who want the non traditional path.
And by the way I personally have no problem if a woman chooses a different path than what the Church teaches. Personally I still believe that marriage is very important and when children come one parent at least should be in the home and typically the mother is the best choice though not always. But I honor peoples choices to work through their own paths and desires with out heaping loads of guilt on them. Here is the rest of what I said. Try responding like and adult otherwise don't bother.
And now you back-peddle - furiously - once called out. This is, again, typical and true to type (there are many others here of similar persuasion.
Oh kiss off. There is no back peddle here. Called out? By you? Indeed you are a legend in your own mind if you think I worry about your view of me. I still believe all what I said above and believes it before I read your comments. Note though the last part of my comments and this is where we diverge:
But I honor peoples choices to work through their own paths and desires with out heaping loads of guilt on them.
This is where we differ. You honor nobody nor tolerate anyone whose view differs from yours and what you think the Church is and should be. And you demonize anyone who disagrees with you.
These are not aberrations Droopy. They are what women of our generation to some extent, really want. Certainly the generation behind us want such things even more so.
Do you dispute this Droopy?
I see you had little to add here.
That is why I asked before what does the Church do with a Brooks. You view her and those like her as the tares. Maybe so. But there are a lot more tares then coming up in this next generation that shouted hurrah when Julie Beck (who took a very hard line about a woman's role in the Church) was released at the last conference.
Then there are other churches, other belief systems, and other paths to walk. The Church is Christ's, not theirs.
That is fine. Then we can watch the Church shrink more and more. And by the way, the real question whether the Church is really preaching Christ's message on this and in the way he would want. You certainly aren't and don't. Try talking to some of these real people sometime. Get out from behind your computer. It will do you some good.