Is Misogyny Alive and Well With Some TBMs?

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Re: Is Misogyny Alive and Well With Some TBMs?

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MsJack wrote:They aren't teaching that prepubescent boys have more authority in the household than their own mothers.


No, we teach that all priesthood holders have more priesthood authority than any woman. Thus the 12 year old deacons have more priesthood authority than any woman.

Authority in the home isn't based on priesthood. Authority in the church is.
(Nevo, Jan 23) And the Melchizedek Priesthood may not have been restored until the summer of 1830, several months after the organization of the Church.
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MsJack wrote:
Drifting wrote:We call them "12 year old boys" Mormons call them "head of the household" when Dad's out.

This is not accurate. I recall a few talks from Dallin Oaks where he talked about being raised by a single mother after his father died. He made it very clear that it was his mother who presided in the home, even though he was the eldest person in the family with priesthood.

Presiding in the home isn't really a priesthood function in Mormon thought anyways. It's a husband > wife > the rest of the family thing. If it were a strict "who has priesthood" thing, then the church would have to teach that non-LDS fathers in mixed member homes do not preside over, say, their 12-year-old member sons.

I dislike the church's teachings on "gender roles" as much as anyone, and I find some of what Oaks has said on the matter to be logically nonsensical*, but let's be fair here. They aren't teaching that prepubescent boys have more authority in the household than their own mothers.

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(*He says leadership in the home is patriarchal while leadership in the church is hierarchical. Since patriarchy is a form of hierarchy and the church hierarchy consists entirely of men, it's nonsensical to try and make such a distinction.)


In a single parent home with a Mother and a 12 year old boy who is a Deacon, who has this:
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The last thing I want to do is to appear to be agreeing with Droopy (because I don't). His "preexistant ontological" stuff is pure fantasy of course.

However, there are of course differences between men and woman. Some of those differences are (nearly) universal such as the obvious anatomical differences. Some differences appear only as facts about averages such as the fact that one the average men are taller than women (some caveats apply here).

We know there are subtle differences in brain stucture.

But is seems to me that once one tries to sort out the differences and disambiguate the biological from the socially constructed (perhaps an artificial division anyway) for anything beyong the obvious, there gets to be trouble and science isn't there yet. Theories and ideas come an go every few decades and nowhere is science more plagued by prejudice, ideology, political correctness and politics than in the (pseudo) science of gender.


(warning, slightly off topic sex talk follows)
Sometimes the so called science can mess people up. For example, I spent 15 years trying to come to terms with the fact that my wife cannot be brought to orgasm by any kind of stimulation of the clitoris as such. Not oral, not digital, not a virbrator. Not by me, not by herself, not by her ex-husband or previous lovers. This much isn't surprising.
What is surprising is that she want to get straight to penetration and there is basical one position and manner of penetration that brings her to the big O essentially every single time (not quite getting there maybe one in 30 times). One the few occasions where she doesn't get there she has no problem admitting it.
Reading certain sexologists (especially from the 70s) had me worried that this was impossible and that she must be faking it or unaware of a real orgasm. The might say wither that the vaginal orgasm is a myth or that some women can get the from penetration only but even for those women other means work more reliably (oral etc) . But the possibility that ONLY penetration does the trick for some people seems to be excluded (implicitly) as a possibility.
But I can no longer have any doubt about this. It is the way she is and her orgasms are real and strong and never come about, never will, come about, never have come about by direct or almost direct clitoral stimulation (I'll forego the explanation of how I know this).
She says her only sensitive spots are on the inside and I am finally forced to concede.
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Tarski wrote:
(warning, slightly off topic sex talk follows)
Sometimes the so called science can mess people up. For example, I spent 15 years trying to come to terms with the fact that my wife cannot be brought to orgasm by any kind of stimulation of the clitoris as such. Not oral, not digital, not a virbrator. Not by me, not by herself, not by her ex-husband or previous lovers. This much isn't surprising.
What is surprising is that she want to get straight to penetration and there is basical one position and manner of penetration that brings her to the big O essentially every single time (not quite getting there maybe one in 30 times). One the few occasions where she doesn't get there she has no problem admitting it.
Reading certain sexologists (especially from the 70s) had me worried that this was impossible and that she must be faking it or unaware of a real orgasm. The might say wither that the vaginal orgasm is a myth or that some women can get the from penetration only but even for those women other means work more reliably (oral etc) . But the possibility that ONLY penetration does the trick for some people seems to be excluded (implicitly) as a possibility.
But I can no longer have any doubt about this. It is the way she is and her orgasms are real and strong and never come about, never will, come about, never have come about by direct or almost direct clitoral stimulation (I'll forego the explanation of how I know this).
She says her only sensitive spots are on the inside and I am finally forced to concede.



Ummmm....

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EAllusion wrote:Speaking of which, math and math heavy scientific disciplines are the last bastion of academia where woman do not, if not dominate, at least hold a majority. As woman have overtaken every other area of academia, what has happened is that women have outperformed men in secondary education, then grad school, and finally doctorates. The math disciplines have followed this trend as well, and now girls are destroying boys in math in secondary school and also outperforming at the undergraduate level. It's only a matter of a short while before they overtake that area of academia too if things continue as they are. I view this as a borderline crisis in how education is happening in the country, and I doubt Droopy is willing to argue this is simply because women are biologically predetermined to be intellectually superior to men on average. Point that out, and you might get social influence Droopy yet.


Delusion, as is usually the case, has not the slightest idea what he's talking about, and hasn't done his homework. The rest are, also as usual, running on ideological fumes leftover from the seventies and only still present in the tank because of the success of feminist ideology (among others) in ensconcing itself within academia as a fundamentalist ideological religion who's own Torquemadas allow no deviation from orthodoxy.


http://www.iapsych.com/wj3ewok/LinkedDo ... ay2005.pdf

http://www.nationalreview.com/articles/ ... ff-sommers

http://www.nationalreview.com/blogs/print/256816

http://townhall.com/columnists/thomasso ... page/full/

The distinguished Dr. Sowell's brief analysis here (which he analyzes at length in several of his books) is worth posting in full here, as it demonstrates succinctly the vast gulf that exists between feminist ideology and social/scientific reality.

No mystery here, however, as second and third wave feminism is really nothing more than another manifestation of theoretical Cultural Marxism with the primary concentration being the oppression and liberation of woman, with strictly economic factors playing a supporting role, and with the same despisal of hierarchy, the same mania for egalitarian social arraignments and separatist collectivism, and the same anti-capitalist animus found in other forms of critical theory and other "liberation" movements within academia and the political culture.


Fraud is as pervasive in arguments for affirmative action for women as in arguments for affirmative action for blacks. In fact, a whole fraudulent history has been concocted to explain the changing economic position of women over the years.

In the feminist movement's version of history, women's changing economic position is explained by women's being repressed by men until they began to be rescued in the 1960s by the women's movement, anti-discrimination policies, and affirmative action.

Hard facts tell a very different story. Women had achieved a higher representation in higher education and in many professions in earlier decades of the twentieth century than they had when the feminist movement became prominent in the 1960s.

This earlier success can hardly be attributed to Gloria Steinem, Betty Friedan and the like. Nor should they be allowed to claim credit for the later resumption of that earlier trend, which had more to do with demographics than politics.

The percentage of master's degrees and doctoral degrees that went to women was never as great during any year of the 1950s or 1960s as that percentage was back in 1930. The percentage of women who were listed in "Who's Who in America" was twice as high in 1902 as in 1958.

Women were also better represented in higher education and in a number of professions in the 1920s or 1930s than they were in the 1950s or 1960s, though none of this fits the fashionable fairy tales of the feminists.

Women received 34 percent of the bachelor's degrees in 1920 but only 24 percent in 1950. In mathematics, women's share of doctorates declined from 15 percent to 5 percent over a span of decades, and in economics from 10 percent to 2 percent.

What was going on? After all, there was no feminist movement and no affirmative action in those earlier years.

What really happened was that, as the birth rate fell from the late nineteenth century into the 1930s, women rose in the professions and in the postgraduate education necessary for these professions. Then, as women began marrying younger and having more children during the years of the baby boom, their representation in both the professions and in the education that led to those professions fell.

There is nothing mysterious about the fact that motherhood is a time-consuming activity, leaving less time to pursue professional careers. It is just plain common sense -- which is to say, it does not provide the moral melodrama needed by movements such as radical feminism.

In later years, as women again began to have fewer children, they rose again in higher education and in the professions, though it was often some years before they regained the position they had achieved decades earlier. But now their rise was accompanied by a drumbeat of feminist propaganda, loudly claiming credit.

Yet the role of motherhood in explaining male-female differences is far more readily demonstrated. Data from more than 30 years ago show that women who remained unmarried and worked continuously from high school into their thirties earned higher incomes than men of the same description.

What about the rise of women's income relative to that of men after the 1960s? Surely that must have been due to the feminist movement or to affirmative action, no? No!

What the hard data show is that more women began working full time, both absolutely and relative to men. Obviously, full-time workers get paid more than part-time workers.

Among those women who worked full-time and year around, their income as a percentage of the income of men of the same description showed no real trend throughout the 1960s and 1970s, despite all the hoopla about the feminist movement and affirmative action.

The income of women who worked full-time and year around began an upward trend relative to the income of men in the 1980s -- during the Reagan administration, which is not when most feminists would claim to have had their biggest impact.

How do the feminists explain away all this earlier history of women's progress? They don't. They ignore it. By the simple expedient of tracing women's progress only since the 1960s, the fraud is protected from contact with inconvenient facts.
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Tarski, please.
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Tarski......

Living proof that when if comes to female sexual response, we (the males of the species) " can be taught!"

Proof positive that we can achieve... shall we term it...... Sexual equality?
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Blixa wrote:Tarski, please.


As in "No, not Droopy - Tarski, please"?
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Chap wrote:
Blixa wrote:Tarski, please.


As in "No, not Droopy - Tarski, please"?


No as in leave your TMI junk in the hall, please!
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Chap wrote:
Blixa wrote:Tarski, please.


As in "No, not Droopy - Tarski, please"?


As in 'Tarski just pulled a Dehlin', a 'Dehlin' is a graphic conversation about sex which has a Medusa-like effect on the reader's/listener's own sexual desire.

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