LittleNipper wrote:A rational bases for marriage is not about what one wants, but what it represents. Marriage doesn't represent sex. Marriage represents an IDEAL of totally committed love, founded in trust, respect, and selflessness.
That's exactly why same-sex couples want the same right to marry as heterosexual couples.
The fruit of that relationship is expressed by the birth of a baby.
Nope. That is not the law. The same-sex marriage issue is about the legal relationship of marriage, not the religious sacrament of marriage---a distinction you are utterly incapable of recognizing, let alone addressing. Procreation is not a legal element of marriage anywhere in the United States. In Utah, for example, a judge can allow first cousins to marry if he or she finds that one or both parties is unable to have children. That is, their marriage is valid specifically because they
cannot procreate. Parental rights are not contingent on marriage, either---Lord Mansfield's Rule has become meaningless thanks to genetic testing. Two people can have a legally valid marriage without ever procreating, and two people can procreate without having a legally valid marriage.
What one government deems suitable, does not (in and of itself) mean it is acceptable to a healthier governing body.
What government deems suitable is the definition of what law is.
At times, some in government engaged in prostitution; however, no one considers such "arrangements" worthy of a societal blessing --- at least not yet...
That's a particularly stupid analogy. An elected official patronizing a prostitute, which is illegal in almost every U.S. jurisdiction, is not remotely analogous to equal protection of law requiring the government to recognize same-sex marriage. The first is an individual committing a crime; the second is the rule of law being applied in society the way the 14th Amendment demands.