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Some Schmo wrote:The main problem with what you've been saying all along here, MG, is that your assumptions (the ones you specified) are never challenged, and therefore, you never step outside that box to do any thinking. All your thought is within the confines of your assumptions.

That's the difference between the believers and those who have left the church. That's why exmos are ahead of the curve and can be considered to be thinking "outside the box." They're willing to challenge their base assumptions, and have.


That's a gross oversimplification.

I think outside the box. I see all the issues; I may not know all the little details, but I know the issues. I see no problems that aren't the same kind of problems prophets had in the Bible. But, I see the Spirit working in the Church. The problem that we faithfuls have in this den of iniquity and hypocrisy is that testimonies of the Spirit are inappropriate for this forum, or in public for that matter.

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marg wrote:in my opinion that's a key significant difference between a good critical thinker versus a poor one, being "comfortable with uncertainty". A good critical thinker doesn't assume any belief is so sacred that it can not be criticized. They don't become so wedded to a belief that they dismiss all disconfirming evidence which is presented or available. A good critical thinker holds all beliefs from the operating perspective that they are temporary and should be changed if warranted but for operational purposes are used as if true with the appreciation at all times that they might not be.


Aarrgh! I have no disagreement with what you've said here. This is the way I try to operate. Why do you insist otherwise?

When I look at MG's posts in this thread, he never looks at "what if" God doesn't exist, what if the God he believes in doesn't exist, what if the Church is entirely man created.


We need to sit down person to person and talk. I have asked myself these questions many times.

And yet he believes he thinks in terms of possibilities and probabilites.


Why not?

When he made the statement that "reality demonstrates there are many ways to know God” I pointed out that reality doesn’t demonstrate this because the evidence is his God has only been known and worshipped a short time - 4,000 years...


This is the period of time I'm referring to.

...relative to the evidence that modern man has been around for at least 100,000 years and hominids from which man evolved have been around 6 million years.


Confucianism and Taoism in China; Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism in India; monotheism in Israel; and philosophical rationalism in Greece which came out of the axial age are where we start getting a real flow of religiosity spreading throughout the world. What comes before this is somewhat fuzzy isn't it?

Therefore what reality demonstrates is that his God is not easily knowable, if where has he been, certainly not in man's mind in all these 100,000’s of years. MG didn’t address this.


It's a little tough to when not a whole lot is known. So what can I say? Before the Native American and Australian Aborigine peoples and early Hinduism there is precious little known about early humans and their worship patterns. We don't know what was "in man's mind in all these 100,000’s of years", so how can we even have a conversation about it?

"Man has walked on this earth for longer than before recorded history. Even the archaeologists know very little about the cultural beliefs and practices of early man. We assume that they had some sort of transcendent belief because of the manner in which they buried their dead.

It is not until the agricultural developments around 10,000 BCE that man begins to have a sense of cultural identity. As mankind started living in large groups, it is highly probable that the rudiments of what we, today, call "religion" began to formulate...Whatever beliefs, theories and ideas we have of early history are based solely on archaeological finds. Archaeology is not an exact science! With each discovery an archaeologist will fill in the missing pieces of history by "connecting the dots."

http://www.agnosticwitch.catcara.com/ol ... ligion.htm


Nobody knows with accuracy how the first religions evolved. By the time that writing had developed, many religions had been in place for millennia and the details of their origins had been forgotten. However, there is speculation that the first religions were created to give people a feeling of security in an insecure world...

http://www.religioustolerance.org/rel_theory1.htm


marg wrote:When he commented that giving money to the church was a good thing even if the church wasn't true and I pointed out that the church owns approx. 35 billion dollars in assets and didn’t need money from families who are strapped for it he again didn’t address this and suggested I start a new thread for my problem.


Marg, I'm operating on the supposition that tithing moneys also bring blessings of one form or another to those that obey the law of the tithe. The church may not need the money, but the tithe payers may receive blessings for obedience. If the church is bogus, then this argument doesn't hold near as much water, granted. I didn't address matter, however, because I'm operating from the point of view or assumption that the church is using the money the way the Lord would want it to be used on the whole. I think that tithing issues simply belong on another thread.

When I pointed out that historically churches haven't used money for good, no comment. When I pointed out that it was laws which kept church from being terrible and one can look at polygamy as an example ..no comment.


Marg, I would just as well stay on topic and in my judgment (after all, I started this thread) this is/was getting off on a tangent...thus no response.

So this is how MG operates, he deludes himself into thinking he is an “out of the box” thinker who looks at possibilities to determine probabilities. And he pats himself on the back. He doesn’t appreciate how intellectually dishonest he is. The evidence in the discussion indicates he participates in order to seek arguments or develop his own which will support his current position and beliefs and any evidence against and/or reasoning against he dismisses.


I won't disagree with this up to the point of saying "any evidence against and/or reasoning against he dismisses." I am more than willing to look at the evidence and adjust my thinking. I'm willing to make paradigm shifts...and have. But unless I come around to your way of thinking I'm being intellectually dishonest?

This is starting to sound a bit like "he said, she said"...with she said trying to get in the final word. <g>

I think it requires intellectual honesty. And it requires a high level of personal integrity to value truth over what one wishes to believe is true.


We are in agreement here. by the way, Marg...what is truth from your perspective?

Pascal's wager, which MG mentioned was a reason he believes indicated to me he lacked personal integrity.


When I can see that making one choice rather than an other based upon available information makes more sense to me than making another choice, especially as it relates to going about choosing a belief system or non-belief system to live my life by, wouldn't it be wise to make a choice that not only may bring potential benefits in the here and now but also in a hoped for hereafter?

Where is the loss of integrity here?

MG, you are a waste of time in my opinion to converse with.


I can't say the same in regards to my conversation with you. I've enjoyed it, and consider it to have been worthwhile from where I sit.

Again, thanks for the conversation,
MG
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Re: Amen Truth Dancer! :)

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Seven wrote:Hi MG, :)
Fist I want to thank you for the very respectful dialogue and openess in your experiences in this thread. This is something new I haven't experienced from the apologetic side. Maybe there is hope for internet TBMs and former Mormons/doubters to get along. :)


I don't know that I'd call myself an apologist. You're the first one to ever infer or seem to put me in that category. But thanks. Apparently I've graduated from being faithful, orthopractic, and hopeful...albeit a bit of a skeptic (have you ever heard me bear my testimony?), to an apologist. Thanks for the kind words, however. They are few and far between on this particular board.

mentalgymnast wrote:
Seven wrote: If apologists and internet TBMs can throw out the hundreds of other teachings/doctrines by LDS Prophets as "opinion", wicked Old Testament practices, and be fine with changes made to the Book of Commandments, edited history, contradictions in the scriptures, racism, etc. then why not throw this one out too?


As I said earlier, I don't think you can throw this one out and still accept Joseph Smith as a prophet. We have evidence that the revelation was dictated to William Clayton. Oh, and there's section 132 on/in the books. <g>


Why not? Have you thrown out any of his prophecies that turned out to be false or revelations Joseph admitted he had errored in?


Well, not until the final count is in. As you mention, Joseph admitted to at times having made errors.


Which teachings or doctrines have you found to be false from LDS leaders and how did you come to that conclusion?


Rather than saying false I would say questionable. As I just said, the final count is not in. Some of the questionables are probably the same ones that you would say are black/white false. Blood atonement, Adam/God, Blacks and Priesthood, Polygamy in heaven, Garden of Eden in Missouri, Zelph the while Lamanite, Law of Retribution in the temple, evolution being a doctrine of the devil, yada, yada, yada.


How do you know [revelations are] not invented by man?


Some are questionable as I've said. Until the final count is in I won't know which ones may have been and which ones weren't.

Do you accept every word/action of the Bibble as God's command or word because a man wrote it down as revelation...


Of course not. The Bible has been monkeyed with over and over again.

...Or do you follow your conscience/Holy Ghost on revelations that are in opposition to Christian values?


I think I'd have to go with a yes on this. Sometimes my conscience may go in the direction of saying...hold off...wait...listen...learn...

I would also like to ask you the same question I asked Wade. What are the gray areas you have opened your eyes to and how have they strengthened your faith in the claims/truth of Mormonism?


Simply put: 1) How God works/intervenes in the world 2) Agency vs. coercion/mandate 3) Opposition present in all things 4) Given information/withheld information 5) Relationship between pre-mortal and mortal spheres of existence 6) line between myth/allegory and reality 7) God's will vs. cultural taboos/policy. I could keep on going, but I'll stop there.

Thinking deeply and long and yes, even critically (thanks marg) in any one of these areas opens up new ways of looking at things. Doesn't happen in one or two easy steps though.

Unfortunately it is all too easy to put my handprint on everything rather than looking for God's. Seems to be a common trait with human beings. <g>

Thank you,
Seven


You are welcome. I enjoy this. It makes me think. Hopefully others are too.

Regards,
MG
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Re: Amen Truth Dancer! :)

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Seven wrote: I believe most members share the belief that if the church isn't true then nothing else is, which easily leads one to atheism.


MG: I move the opposite direction. If there is a God, it is more than likely that the church is true, even with the so-called warts. Why cancel out God's BEING simply because we observe the world... and the church ... BEING as they are? Yes, the church teaches its members to be in the world, but not of the world. But we don't always do a very good job of that do we?

What does that have to do with God's existence though?

Regards,
MG
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rcrocket wrote:
Some Schmo wrote:The main problem with what you've been saying all along here, MG, is that your assumptions (the ones you specified) are never challenged, and therefore, you never step outside that box to do any thinking. All your thought is within the confines of your assumptions.

That's the difference between the believers and those who have left the church. That's why exmos are ahead of the curve and can be considered to be thinking "outside the box." They're willing to challenge their base assumptions, and have.


That's a gross oversimplification.

I think outside the box. I see all the issues; I may not know all the little details, but I know the issues. I see no problems that aren't the same kind of problems prophets had in the Bible. But, I see the Spirit working in the Church. The problem that we faithfuls have in this den of iniquity and hypocrisy is that testimonies of the Spirit are inappropriate for this forum, or in public for that matter.

rcrocket


Well, it is simple. Have you actually challenged the assumption that there even is a spirit? Or that prophets actually exist? Or god, for that matter?

I have a hard time believing you've thought outside the box when you don't even seem to be aware of what the box is. What you call the spirit I call an active imagination attaching supernatural explanations to everyday occurrences. You can "bare your testimony" of the spirit all you want; just don't be surprised when rational people identify you as a hallucinating crackpot.
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Re: Amen Truth Dancer! :)

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mentalgymnast wrote:
Seven wrote: I believe most members share the belief that if the church isn't true then nothing else is, which easily leads one to atheism.


MG: I move the opposite direction. If there is a God, it is more than likely that the church is true, even with the so-called warts. Why cancel out God's BEING simply because we observe the world... and the church ... BEING as they are? Yes, the church teaches its members to be in the world, but not of the world. But we don't always do a very good job of that do we?

What does that have to do with God's existence though?

Regards,
MG


When I left the church, it was due to agnosticism. I didn't think one could know one way or the other. I held that view for over 20 years. Over that time, I went from thinking there likely was a god to being half and half to seriously entertaining the idea there was no god (and by the way, the idea of Satan was given up way earlier in that time). Then I read The God Delusion and a few other books, and I have to say that although I'd never claim to "know" there is no god, his existence seems entirely unlikely based on simple probabilities.

So, speaking for myself, it was never a black/white dichotomy of "either everything about Mormonism is true or everything about Mormonism is false." (Even though I was born in the church, I never believed Joe Smith told the truth in the first place.) My journey from being "god fearing" to atheist has been a long and slow one.
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Re: Amen Truth Dancer! :)

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Some Schmo wrote:
mentalgymnast wrote:
Seven wrote: I believe most members share the belief that if the church isn't true then nothing else is, which easily leads one to atheism.


MG: I move the opposite direction. If there is a God, it is more than likely that the church is true, even with the so-called warts. Why cancel out God's BEING simply because we observe the world... and the church ... BEING as they are? Yes, the church teaches its members to be in the world, but not of the world. But we don't always do a very good job of that do we?

What does that have to do with God's existence though?

Regards,
MG


Then I read The God Delusion and a few other books, and I have to say that although I'd never claim to "know" there is no god, his existence seems entirely unlikely based on simple probabilities.


Hi Schmo. The simple probabilities can also point the other direction:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fine-tuned_universe

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthropic_principle

I wouldn't say "entirely unlikely".

Regards,
MG
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Re: Amen Truth Dancer! :)

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mentalgymnast wrote: Hi Schmo. The simple probabilities can also point the other direction:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fine-tuned_universe

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthropic_principle

I wouldn't say "entirely unlikely".

Regards,
MG


Neither of those ideas necessarily point to a god. It sounds like you, among many others, insert the word “god” where you should be saying “I don’t understand or know.” All those principles address are the conditions present to support life (and by the way, Dawkins uses the anthropic principle extensively to support his own arguments). There are far more rational and sound arguments for the earth supporting life than a supernatural maker. Just because the probability for the conditions that support life is low doesn't mean it's impossible (after all, we're here... we exist).

I think what you may be ignoring is this tiny planet we find ourselves on is a spec of dust in the vastness of the universe, and the majority of the universe strictly does NOT support life. Why bother making a humongous universe for humans if you’re only going to make a spec of it useful to them? Does that make any sense at all? (I have a feeling I'm going to get something along the convenient lines of "god works in mysterious ways" which is, to me, another way of saying "yeah, it doesn’t make sense, but I have to believe in god, so I'll shelve that problem").
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Re: Amen Truth Dancer! :)

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Some Schmo wrote:
Neither of those ideas necessarily point to a god. It sounds like you, among many others, insert the word “god” where you should be saying “I don’t understand or know.” All those principles address are the conditions present to support life (and by the way, Dawkins uses the anthropic principle extensively to support his own arguments). There are far more rational and sound arguments for the earth supporting life than a supernatural maker. Just because the probability for the conditions that support life is low doesn't mean it's impossible (after all, we're here... we exist).


What it all comes down to is choice. We each make choices based on our own personally considered thoughtful/sound arguments. I have no problem with that. Be an atheist!

I think what you may be ignoring is this tiny planet we find ourselves on is a spec of dust in the vastness of the universe, and the majority of the universe strictly does NOT support life. Why bother making a humongous universe for humans if you’re only going to make a spec of it useful to them?


I don't see where size matters. I'm going down to a stargazing get together in Bryce Canyon this next week. It's a heck of a lot more fun looking out at a big universe through a large telescope than have everything end at a black wall at the edge of space. Ever seen Truman Show? Why would God stick us in a tiny little box that we can see the end of? <g>

Does that make any sense at all? (I have a feeling I'm going to get something along the convenient lines of "god works in mysterious ways" which is, to me, another way of saying "yeah, it doesn’t make sense, but I have to believe in god, so I'll shelve that problem").


You won't get that from me. But I am glad some bright guys invented telescopes.

by the way, have you ever thought about how large the earth would seem to a little ant living in an ant colony?

Regards,
MG
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Re: Amen Truth Dancer! :)

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Seven wrote: There are many statements from Prophets on how the truth or fraud of Mormonism rests on whether Joseph told the truth. It's easy to see how this could cause a crisis with our realtionship to God/Christ when we find out the church leaders lied & deceived.


A few things to look at or at least keep in mind here along with the fact that we're looking at little snippets/snapshots out of history and we "look through a glass darkly".

1) Were there any higher-order intentions at play in situations where it appears the truth was being manipulated?

2) Who or what was being protected/insulated from harm when it appears that the truth may have been manipulated?

3) Lying involves more than just deceptive intent; the liar must also say something that they genuinely believe is false. Where are the shades of gray in particular instances where it appears that the truth may have been manipulated?

4)Traumatizing and/or confusing situations/events in which one finds the line between revelation and an illusory auditory/visual perception to be somewhat fuzzy/incomplete.

Regards,
MG
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