Lucretia MacEvil wrote: Oh, Wade, you're just going to have to get used to the idea that many therapists do not believe that devotion to a controlling religion is a contributor to good mental health. But thanks for setting out your agenda so clearly here.
I am aware that there are still a number of therapists who are throw-backs to the increasingly discredited Freudian philosophy. Dr. Mowrer, research professor of psychology at the University of Illinois, describes the Freudian philosophy as, in part, assuming that "neurosis arises because the afflicted individual's moral standards are unrealistically high, that he has not been 'bad' but too good, and that the therapeutic task is, specifically, to counteract and neutralize conscience, 'soften' the demands of a presumeably too severe superego, and thus free the person from inhabitions and 'blocks' which stand in the way of normal gratification of 'instincts'." (In the Introduction of Dr. Glasser's book on Reality Therapy)
Advocates of Reality Therapy and Choice Theory, such as myself, suggest nearly the opposite. Our philosophy entails the three R's: reality, responsibility, and right-and-wrong. As Dr. Mower intimates that, to us "the problem is rather an incapacity or failure at the interpersonal, social level of human functioning." In other words, treatment isn't about blaming external entities, such as the Church, for internal issues like depression, but looking inward for the problem and correction. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy takes a similar philosophical stance. (Please note: I am not so much stating a personal "agenda", as you call it, but setting forth a scientifically proven philosophy and treatment approach that I share with a growing number of professionals.)
So, on the one hand we have the treatment philosophy of permissiveness and guiltlessness (the influences of which has had a profound and negative impact on the degredation of societies over the years), which has had a rather poor, if not failed, track record (at times leaving patients thinking they were okay, but ultimately ending up worse off than when they started treatment--I have witnessed this personally with a close relation). And, on the other hand, there is the philosophy of responsibility and accountabilty, which has an excellent track record.
I suppose that both therapists and patient are free to decide between the two.
Granted, there are some therapist who pick and choose from among both philosophies, and may be a mixture of the two, or even variations of other schools of thought. If you quoted your therapist correctly, it sounds as though s/he may be mixed, if not Freudian.
This is the long way of saying that while I understand that there are psychological approaches that differ from the one's I prefer, I don't know if it is wise to simply "accept" their existence. Rather, I think it in the interest of the patients and the mental health profession to advocate for the very best form of treatment--as scientifically proven. I believe I am doing just that with Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Reality Therapy, and Choice Theory. If there is an "agenda" to what I have communicated to you, that would be it. ;-)
Thanks, -Wade Englund-