I know a few licked cupcakes with a child who went on to marry in the temple to great guys. It's more difficult, but that's not a reason to give up your baby.
I don't know how many people you know who were adopted but I know several. Most of them had parents who became pregnant in high school, were encouraged by their parents to adopt out the child, and were able to finish high school, go to college etc. So many of them found their parents later on and discovered they had entire families, some were pure blood siblings. I think you can imagine the pain of finding out you could have been with your biological parents and siblings, but were born at the wrong time. I am very proud of my friends and family members who sacrificed by keeping their babies, despite the church and their parents telling them to give it away. They all went on to receive an education and marry. They can't imagine choosing a different path.
The pain these children go through from being given away by their parents is something only the adopted child can know, and many have explained it to me. It caused great harm to find out they could have been raised in a good home by their biological parents. I could go into more detail later about a friend of mine who told me of the connection you feel to your own blood and how important that was for her to find them.
Do you think as a parent you would regret giving your baby away for an easier education?
My point is, the church should think about the consequences of giving a child away for the pain it causes the child and parents for a lifetime over the short term benefits of attending college childless. They want these babies farmed out to active LDS homes so the kid has a better chance of being a faithful LDS. Why not support the parents as a church and help them raise the child as LDS too?
You're pretty smart, for a youngster. ;-)
My daughter has a friend who is a divorcee with an 8 year old son. The girl wants to have a boyfriend and get married again, but finding an LDS man who willingly looks beyond the child to the woman is nigh onto impossible where we live. she despairs of ever finding a mate.
My daughter has given up any hope, and is saving to be able to adopt. she figures she'll have enough in a couple of years. She refuses to allow anyone to dictate what her life will be like, including some nonexistent LDS man who might decide at some point (perhaps too late) that she would make a suitable wife. She wants to be a mother, so her choices are either adopt or artificial insemination. She'll try the former first, and if that isn't satisfactory, she'll do the latter, knowing the consequences going in. It's not ideal, but neither is waiting on some LDS man to decide his comfortable life could use a little shaking up.