The Nehor wrote:Lucretia MacEvil wrote:So do you believe you should follow them even though they are wrong, or are you entitled to pick cafeteria style and still receive all the blessings?
That's a tricky but good question. I dislike the cafeteria metaphor in this case because it usually applies to a different situation. If God is the one directly providing the food then the answer is an emphatic no. God has asked me to do things and taught me things that seemed strange, illogical, and once even abhorrent to me. I don't have an option there. If an Apostle or a Prophet presents information to me that I feel can't help me or doesn't apply, I ignore it. If they teach something I think is wrong, I appeal to higher authority. Sometimes I find out I was wrong, sometimes that they were wrong and most often that I misunderstood what they were saying and there was no disagreement. As for being blessed for following someone who is wrong I have little to say. I imagine that if you follow in honest ignorance you might be blessed. Someone who has cultivated spiritual and intellectual laziness and just rides on the coattails of the leaders of the Church are in my opinion not innocent.
The normal "Cafeteria Mormon" is one that throws out anything that at first glance they don't like and keeps what they like. If God isn't in the equation I see trouble as God's truths are eventually remade in their image instead of vice-versa.
You know, I totally expect that you use good judgment in your picking and choosing, but still it is judgment ... rationalization ... you could do just as well making your way in the world without the so-called prophetic guidance of the Mormon church, and with a whole lot less baggage and necessity to apologize for all these prophetic mis-steps along the way.