Jason Bourne wrote:
- Trusting feelings over logic and sense
I have never ever heard such counsel.
Admittedly, this one may never be spoken aloud; but it is implied, without a doubt.
Jason Bourne wrote:- Families encouraged to have abnormally large families without the means to properly provide for them
I think the church has backed off on this.
Well, if that's the case, that's good to hear.
Jason Bourne wrote:- Paying tithing despite not really being able to afford it under the premise "God will provide"
Tithing is considered a test of faith at times.
Well, that's the given explanation, but that doesn't mean it's smart (or stupidity avoiding).
Jason Bourne wrote:Young men encouraged to spend their life savings to that point on a rather dubious "mission" rather than putting that money where it should go - into an education
I think a mission can be a wownderful life event and would never have learned what I learned as a missionary going to school. Oh and later I went to college too.
Being 19 is a wonderful life event. Going out on your own is a wonderful life event. No mission is necessary, and it actually delays the business of getting your adult life started.
I know a mission is good for some people, but that doesn't mean the money wouldn't be better spent on education.
Jason Bourne wrote:- Waiting till marriage to have sex (this should really be number #1)
I think this is a good one for the most part but could be taught better.
I think a ton of marital heartache could be avoided if people know what they're getting into (sex wise) before the contract is signed. It absolutely makes no sense at all that one of the most critical aspects of any marriage is tested before the commitment is made. Important, life changing decisions should not be made without doing the necessary research.
Jason Bourne wrote:- Waiting till marriage to live together
Studies have proved that living togather before marriage is a dumb thing and when the couple marry are 805 more likely to divorce.
Not a bad list though.
I'm curious about this study you're referencing. I'd be very surprised if the cited statistics (I'm assuming you meant "80%") are accurate. Again, it's about doing the proper research up front.
I, for example, lived with my wife for 3.5 years before marrying her. We've been together almost 16 years now and are still going strong. Anecdotal, I know, but there's no way I'd ever marry a woman without knowing what she was like to live with first.
God belief is for people who don't want to live life on the universe's terms.