Hi Hoops...
Sorry if I hit a nerve! I didn't mean to offend you.
Your penchant for buttressing your argument with hyperbole is not helpful. Who in the world said construction workers whistling at a fifteen year old is acceptable. Please, emotionalism is impressive, but not helpful.
I'm not saying YOU thought this was OK... I'm trying to make the point that young women growing up in this world do not need to hear the message that they are their body, and their worth is based on how attractive they are to men.
No, I don't know what it is like to be admired in this way. Nor do you know what it's like to walk around with sexual impulses you can not control and have a thought you have every 6 seconds be called sinful and demeaning to 52% of the population.
It is not I who call men sinners...
Nor have I ever suggested that a woman's sexual attractiveness should be the limit to their value - nor a man's.
Again, I'm not suggesting YOU do... I'm saying that our world, our society has given this message to girls and women. Do you know any parents of young girls?
Then your complaint is with those who do.
Yep... I'm not suggesting you are in this catagory Hoops....
I think I was clear when I acknowledged that YOU do NOT see it this way.Those of us, the vast majority, who do admire a woman's shape and admire a woman's mystery are not your enemy. Though, in your zeal to defend some ridiculous feminist world view, you have made us so.
I do not have an enemy. And I have no need to defend a ridiculous feminist world view.
I am hopeful that our world will move to a place where women are valued for something other than her body, and treated with more respect.
While you and others may indeed see women as something more than a form, this is not the message girls and women receive in our society.
Sorry, women are here for the pleasure of men. Men are here for the pleasure of women.
I do not think God created women for the pleasure of men.... In other words, I'm suggesting the idea that a woman's value is based on how valuable she is to a man is not in the best interest of life.
Get over yourself. You're not nearly as persecuted as you claim.
I do not feel persectued at all. I'm not sure what gave you this impression. Nor do I think I am anything to get over. ;-)
I do know society is filled with girls who are struggling with their self worth, who have issues of body loathing, who have all sorts of eating disorders, who hate themselves because they do not feel sexually attractive.
To deconstruct all of your gross generalizations and exaggerations would take quite some time. You may enjoy waging this war on men, but I won't participate.
I am not waging a war on anyone. Virtually all the men I know are fabulous, wonderful, amazing men! Not sure why you think I want to wage a war of anyone.
My difficulty comes with a society that is not healthy for girls and women.
And if you think I am exaggerating you have not spoken to many young women these days, or you are unaware of the message young women are inundated with each day.
Sorry again for any hard feelings... it was not my intention to fight or offend.
~dancer~