(emphasis added)Ray Ago wrote:My ideal woman is difficult to describe, but I think I will know what I want when I see/ hear her.
I don't want a prude, yet I don't want a swinger. I want intelligence, but not a smart ass. I like kindness and sensitivity, but I like bluntness, openness, and something about outrageous women attracts me. I confess, I once lived with a heroin addicted prostitute who was shooting up three times a day, and had this enormous attraction for her (well she was 22 and pretty), and I couldn't explain it. She's the closest I came to a soulmate. But circumstances, and her addiction, stopped all that.
Well, now, this is quite interesting! Who knew that, in addition to his violent outbursts, he was also hooking up with a prostitute!
The ZLMB thread in question can be read in its entirety here:
http://p094.ezboard.com/fpacumenispages ... =1&stop=20
Another interesting elaboration from the same post:
Ray A wrote:So I wonder if I'll ever find "the One", or is that just another urban myth? I think I'm too picky, and like my freedom. Relationships get too complicated. The romance and everything is nice, but then you gotta get kicked off your bed occasionally.
Very hard to pinpoint exactly what I want. Not a submissive little miss darling who does everything you ask/tell her, but will occasionally tell you to bugger off, and knows what she wants from life. I have a female friend now who has the attitude that if any male rips her off or treats her badly she'll "rip his bloody arms off" (Aussie saying). Why do I find that so attractive? (psychologist alert!)
Hmmmm. I suppose what we have here is yet another instance of Ray's endless flip-flopping. He claimed to find this type of woman "attractive," and yet doesn't this seem to be a spot-on description of Beastie? How very, very peculiar indeed!