The Nehor wrote:…marriage in the United States and the Western world has always meant a man and a woman joining in a legal relationship.
Times, they are a changin’.
The Nehor wrote:I don't think the federal government can or should attempt to redefine it's meaning.
But they can. If the Supreme Court decides that the restriction on the participants’ gender is arbitrary, then statues prohibiting marriage based on such are unconstitutional.
The Nehor wrote:Most people would object if there was anyone attempting to marry an 8 year old or a dolphin or a rock or a corpse in order to create a legal marriage.
The basis for excluding such unions is purely legalistic. Those second parties cannot enter legal contracts for various reasons. Hence, they are excluded from the process.
The Nehor wrote:As a society we need to decide IF we want to expand the definition and I think it will and should be decided in individual states.
Allowing same sex marriages is not an expansion of the definition. Rather, it is a streamlining. Currently each state has a set of requirements that must be met for individuals to enter into a marriage. Some of the requirements are arbitrary, and some are in place to protect the participants. If the requirement that the participants be of the opposite sex is determined to be arbitrary (as was the case with race) then that requirement for marriage is simply removed (or not allowed to be employed). From a religious stand point this is an expansion, but religious based legislation is arbitrary.
The Nehor wrote:Eventually if the definition shifts everything will fall into place.
I don’t know what that means.
The Nehor wrote:Either that or a huge battle for a federal constitutional amendment (which I personally do not want).
I am skeptical that such an amendment would pass.
The Nehor wrote:I don't think the fourteenth amendment applies here because homosexual marriage has never been defined as a universal right.
The question has never been asked before (to my knowledge).
The Nehor wrote:The argument of 'separate but equal' falls flat for me as they are different things.
What are different things? Race and sexual orientation? Well, yes and no. Yes, because one has to do with who your ancestors were and the other has to do with who you like to do it with. No, because they are a facet of one’s identity completely out of our control.
The Nehor wrote:Some of these relate to their children.
Are the rights (relating to their children) of married parents different than that of unmarried parents?
The Nehor wrote:Homosexual marriage would be an addition and is NOT allowable by the same permit.
Under the current restrictions on who can get married, yes. But that is the question at hand.
The Nehor wrote:Can we demand that the permit be extended on the basis that someone thinks it's not fair that the permit isn't flexible enough to meet their needs? No.
I really don’t understand this statement. There are folks that think the restrictions on who can get married are unfair and they are demanding that those restrictions be removed. I am not sure why you say “No” here.
The Nehor wrote:I do think it will inevitably happen when my generation and the ones behind begin to take power.
Since I cannot see any legal reason to deny gay couples the right to marry, I would agree.