Some Schmo wrote:Are you saying Mormons don't hate gay people?
I don't speak monolithically about "Mormons," but those that do are poor examples of Mormonism and humanity in general. Disagreeing with someone does not = hating them. I hope you don't mean to insist it does.
Some Schmo wrote:Is it more a case of not liking their behavior? That would be interesting given the prevalent Mormon attitude communicated that critics hate Mormons rather than Mormonism.
I think you're generalizing a bit. There are clearly cynics that do hate Mormons, but most of them do not. That, of course, in no way supports the accusation that Mormons (in general) hate gays, especially given the hypocrisy of you asserting Mormon hatred while belittling the assertion from Mormons of hatred.
Some Schmo wrote:They are "just as antagonistic toward the church?" You mean, just as antagonistic toward the church as the church is against gay people? (Well, that's revealing.)
How is the church antagonistic toward gays? We don't go to gay communities and force them to play Skip-Bo. When Soulforce came to BYU I invited them to my single's ward FHE and we had a wonderful evening with about 20 of our ward members and 12 of their equality riders discussing our thoughts on the whole situation. We learned a lot and they learned a lot. They told us their favorite stop so far had been BYU because of how respectful everyone had been. Few Mormons are aggressive about their disapproval of homosexuality, and those that are are in clear defiance of church standards and teachings. Most are very respectful and very kind, irrespective of whatever impression you have or are trying to cultivate.
Some Schmo wrote:And you know this... how exactly?
Because of the situation and how they responded to it. They clearly intended to cause a scene. Their later explanation of the events was clearly crafted to appeal to a sense of indignation and persecution at the hands of a gay-hating Church. I find it hard to believe anyone honestly thinks they did not intend to be antagonistic.
Some Schmo wrote:For someone who likes to call others out on making baseless assertions, this is quite a whopper.
I think the fact quite clearly support my conclusion.
Some Schmo wrote:You know, you strike me as a moderately intelligent guy. It's too bad you're also pretty whiney.
Zing!
Some Schmo wrote:Well, given you don't know anything about them (except what you've accepted from the church's statement
And their account of the event and the police report. You seem to be the one basing your conclusions off of insufficient data.
Some Schmo wrote:- which means you don't know anything), why not completely reserve judgment? Is it because there's an opportunity to denigrate critics, and so objectivity gets thrown out the window?
Not at all. When this topic first came up on another board I explained that I had a hard time believing security personnel would give anyone trouble for a peck on the cheek, but that I'd like to see the police report. I ended it there. I only commented again when the church's statement came out and I had access to the police report. I suspended judgment, which is far more than the cynics have done. Don't accuse me of being on their level.