liz3564 wrote:Assuming your analysis is correct....the temple rites were changed because it served the Prime Directive of the Church to do so. The survival, growth, and power of the Church is funded on members wanting to attend the temple. When there was enough disgruntlement that the endowment ceremony was too cult-like for members to feel comfortable, it became a concern. After all, why should I pay 10% of my income to have the ability to attend a service I don't really want to attend in the first place?
The temple ceremony was changed out of an attempt to motivate members to attend more frequently, by shortening it, among other things. The change had nothing to do with the needs of the members but everything to do with the needs of the institution in that temple worthiness is a way of controlling members and temple attendance is a way of binding members more strongly to the institution.
Similar reason why the Brethren won't change the policy on temple marriage; if it allowed a civil marriage first, immediately followed by a temple marriage, or encouraged couples to get married where the whole family could attend, this weakens or takes away the power of the temple, and ideal of temple marriage, as a method of controlling the members. The Brethren are afraid that if they open the door even a small crack, members will push it wide open, and the Brethren will lose control as a result--all the detriment of what they perceive the institutional interests of the Church to be.