beastie wrote:I have nothing against occasional dabbling in psycho-babble and do it myself, but you engage in it repeatedly, almost in every post. Of course, I recognized what you were doing long ago. For whatever reason, you've decided against simply asserting that apostates are inspired by Satan and sin, and have slightly adjusted the prejudicial teachings of the LDS church into a twisted form of psycho-babble: there's something psychologically dysfunctional with apostates.
Yep. That's exactly right. For me, it's enough to know that Wade pushes my buttons and knows he's pushing them. There's really little difference among Wade's "mental defect" attacks, Juliann's wacky "fundamentalist" accusations, and Pahoran/selek's assertions that we're just plain evil.
It's just a slightly different form of the same silly old dance. And, by the way, while I don't view the LDS church as a cult over-all, the persistent tendency to demonize apostates, whether by Satan-association or mental dysfunction, is a hallmark of cults.
There's definitely an underlying contempt for ex-Mormons among an awful lot of Mormons, and that is by design. The church has consistently taught for 180 years or so that those who leave and publicly criticize the church are the worst of the worst, Satan's minions, whatever.
I've always thought it interesting that even rabid anti-Mormon EVs, such as Aaron Shafovaloff, are treated at least more politely than ex-Mormons. Perhaps this is because such people are considered deceived or blinded, but their hearts are in the right place. That's never an assumption made about ex-Mormons. We are the deceivers, not the deceived, and our hearts are never in the right place. And it's all right to treat us like crap because, if we take offense, it's our fault for choosing to be offended.
This is not to say that there isn't plenty of contempt for believers among many critics. But there is a difference: we didn't start out with contempt as a baseline for judging people. I admit I feel some contempt for a small number of apologists, but that's because they have earned my contempt (and I've likewise earned the contempt of others).
But it's a damn shame that an organization teaches its members to treat a growing number of people as inherently contemptible.